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Date: September 27, 2022
wife 100%. the whole situation is an enormous headache, but you're right. number one thing is that she's okay. i keep telling myself years from now none of this car stuff will matter. the situation still stings really bad because it's so fresh, but it will fade in time
Except you said it was more important to ask why. It isn’t, at all.
I think you might need to get off the internet for a little bit. Delete reddit/tiktok for a few days. You'll feel so much better
I think that may be the best bet. Thank you!
My fiancee had a coworker flat out ask “wanna eat me out?” And I've never wanted to go fight someone so badly before lol, made my fiancee so uncomfortable and I don't like someone being disrespectful to her or our relationship.
OP doesn't seem the type to ask “hey is this guy gay or?” and just sorta jumps to his own conclusions. A lot of women make the same social media posts as OP's gf, she's probably been posting like that for ages and its just become her norm so she doesn't see it as inappropriate. As for the not texting, I still feel it was to give herself some space from OP hence the “I miss him so much” post but not reading his messages. I don't know though, I'm not her
I know this is going to sound harsh, but do NOT marry someone that talks to you like this. You MUST get this sorted out before tying the knot. And I don't mean telling her the wedding is off or throwing down some ultimatum. I mean put your hand on the wedding-kill-switch in your head and start down the path of fixing this together, hand in hand, but be ready to bail if things don't improve.
More importantly, get a couples therapist yesterday to help you two communicate better. The things she is saying to you are flat out emotionally abusive. So, now you know what abuse feels like and can start to identify this type of shitty behavior in other topics that pop up. It isn't ok. We do not talk to each other like that. Ever.
Y'all need to figure out your sexual incompatibility and how to compromise in a way that is healthy and you need to learn how to communicate better as a couple and understand where and how to draw the line when it comes to this abusive shit. A couples therapist will help. Get an appointment and tell her lovingly how much you want this marriage to be a success and that you have an appointment. Go, even if she gets all mean and aggressive and doesn't come with.
In the end, therapy is much cheaper than a wedding and divorce. This is a good use of your time and money.
Also, know that your feelings about sex and how often you want to have it and how much you feel comfortable initiating it and how often and when and why you change your mind is all completely ok. You are not less of a man. You are perfectly healthy and it sounds like you have a healthy view of sex.
Also, her desire to have a man that initiated and is horny all the time and she just wants get dicked down at every turn… Totally fine too. You may just be incompatible. What isn't fine is her manipulative, abusive put downs and telling to that you aren't healthy and aren't a man. That is just off the farm abusive.
I wish you the best sincerely. I hope she can see the light and I hope that if she doesn't you smash that kill switch. Life is long, and having an asshole putting you down and telling you aren't a man because she isn't getting dicked as often as she would like is some BULLSHIT that will make it feel even longer.