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Date: October 27, 2022
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I personally wouldn't be friends with his friend (I would remain cordial) but him staying friends with him is a different situation. Sometimes men can be great friends but TERRIBLE boyfriends. It won't skew your boyfriend's views on your relationship. If your man is a good one, he won't do anything to hurt you.
I wouldn't jump to abuse, but the way she described the relationship did raise some red flags for me.
OP sounds inexperienced, and this encounter seemed very one-sided (he spoiled me, he treated me, he bought me, he took me–all about the things he did to/for her). A child's fantasy of love, basically. It's possible she only included those details to show how into her he seemed to be, which made the breakup so surprising, but if a friend of mine described a new relationship in these terms I would be like Hmmm.
Men will defend men for anything including rape
Stop responding, block him and ask yourself if what he's doing now is for you or him.
You're the person he can abuse. That's what he gains. Power. It's not love, or remorse and it's not because he had some sudden realization that you're the bees knees.
When you feel bad for him you are surrendering your power to him. Value yourself more than him.
Look I know a shitty couple who got together after cheating for years.
They would send each other “innocent” texts. But their real conversations where phone calls and found on social media platforms. They did it to throw both partners off and it worked.
Just tell him to eff off and cut him out of your life. Do away with the childish fantasy of exacting revenge.
You've learned a hot lesson. You should never ignore a person's untrustworthy nature. He cheated on his ex with you and lied about when that ended. He was messing around with this new girl before he ended things with you. You decided to turn a blind eye to his obvious shortcomings. Don't repeat these mistakes in the future.
I think you should be applauded for going after what you wanted and getting it.
No. No. No… I found out about shit like this after I married a dumbass like this RUN!!!!
It isn’t , he has a friend that is of the opposite sex , and they Arnt talking about anything sexual or inappropriate based on the above story yet she’s hounding him for information
If this situation was flipped every girl on the planet would say he’s toxic but once a man does it … it’s absolutely not toxic ?
Well since you sat down with him and tried to talk it out and he refused to listen and instead turned it all around to put the blame on you. Then I'm afraid you will have to face the fact that he is cheating with that person either emotionally, physically or both.
I mean think about it. Most people I know don't send texts to their friends that would make their partner feel something was wrong. However, people who cheat either emotionally or physically often do that. And do you know what else they often do? When caught or confronted about it, they instantly clam up. Get belligerent and blame their spouse. Even if you were to have caught them together in bed, he most probably still would turn around and blame the whole thing on you. Just as a way to deflect from his guilt and his wrongdoing.
You must think about it? Do you really want your sister to check into this? I'm pretty sure that you already know what she might find out. You need to look at what actually has already been going on. He's done something completely inappropriate when in a relationship with someone. And when caught and confronted about it, he instantly tried to turn everything around into a guilt trip on you. That alone should tell you where and to who his feelings and care are focused.
At this point-you should start referring to him as your “EX-BOYFRIEND”…Dump Him sis.
I am reluctant to say “tested negative” is meaningfull because it depends on the incubation period and when the test was performed after sex. If infected, you transmit it independent if you have or don't have symptoms. It is in fact so infectious that it is enough to touch the sexual organ with your hand to get it.
Bidets are the way to go!
Also who rides a exercise bike hot ?
Have you ever considered taking your kids on a family vacation with you?
These family vacations are the memories kids hold on to for life. Take small vacations, then with experience take bigger ones with them.
Also, start snooping on your husband and make sure you have security cams installed in your home.
How hot is it to make someone feel loved? This is a situation of “if he wanted to, he would”. If you are feeling unloved within a 10 month timeframe, you don’t want to experience how it will feel later on.
If OP is ever in a situation of a work conference away from home again, give yourself some boundaries. Limit drinks. If you are the last one standing out of your team, leave immediately.
Ghost him- the relationship is ending and you owe him nothing
Based on your comment “I told him yesterday that I really would prefer if she doesn't come over anymore and said I was done with her. He told me it was dramatic.”
You have a husband problem here.
She texted my husband friday night and was upset that we all never hang out anymore.
His friend ended up having car trouble and couldn't make it, so my husband told Kate that he was going to get dinner anyway and she could come if she wanted to.
Is that what really happened? Did your husband even have plans with someone else? I wouldn't believe a single thing about how Friday night ended up happening unless I saw that text thread myself.
Maybe he needs a friend more than you do and he's just being awkward about it.
I think you just need to be blunt – your situation has changed and you're not open to adding friendships now. You are focusing on yourself. All the best.
Or maybe… You could benefit from a new friend. As annoying as he is. I don't know lol
If you even want to try to salvage things (huge if), you need to unvarnished truth and couples therapy.
If not, cut your losses now.
Are YOU serious? You think that's normal for the vast majority of the population?
She isn’t a prostitute? Try the dead bedroom sub.
Wow she sounds horrible. Cut contact man
Your forget about the child that you abandoned to bone his friend and move on.
Well as long as it’s not mustard…lol! Remember the dude that berated his wife for not liking mustard…lol..she divorced his crazy butt!