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I had a girlfriend like that once. She told her parents she had been having sex with her previous boyfriend, did not like taking precautions. She asked on the second date for sex. I refused her, and kept it as a platonic relationship while it lasted. I, personally thought she was under age and had been doing it for a few years with this chap, and was lying that they had broken up.
When I was in a car accident that totaled my car many years ago, complete and utter strangers stopped and showed me more care and concern than your boyfriend is showing you.
He's not behaving the way someone who cares about another person behaves. Actions expose truth.
Girl take his phone and sent a selfie of you with the caption “ you love to talk to guys in relationships ?”. Even if she doesn’t know she will never talk him again . The pack your stuff and leave
If you keep putting yourself in a situation over and over again, you will fail. If you act like it isn't possible to cheat and she is crazy, controlling, and insecure, then you are rationalizing what you are doing. Switch it around. She is the one being alone with guys. How would you feel about that? Don't give a hypothetical answer you “think” you would do. Really think about it.
Ok, but do you really think someone who would break up immediately would want to be poly? He doesn’t need to hear her out if he would break up with her no matter what she could say if that was a deal breaker for him.
This brings to mind a line I've seen bandied about in this and similar subs: Your mental health issues are not your fault, but they are your responsibility.
Your wife has two options: seek and adhere to treatment, or continue to harm you and your child.
If she chooses the latter option, you need to get out of there, preferably with your child.
Thanks, I know this is the right answer. It’s just a shitty situation. I’m still very hurt by what happened and I know I’ll be forced to be around it once she’s back into it. I don’t know if I’m ready to return.
Let it end. To smooth things over, the most I’d do is send her a gift card for her favourite coffee place (enough for her usual order), and a card thanking her for her companionship while you found your footing in the new workplace, and just wish her the best. The last thing you (or she) want to deal with is workplace drama.
Common law marriage she only has to introduce you as her husband to other people, which gives her rights. Look it up in your state (assuming you are in US)
I can handle my problems however i want to. If I was just laughing it away, I wouldn't have posted at all. I do need to talk to a professional. I 100% get that it's a lot of stuff I need to deal with, but the relationship isn't serious enough to be extremely serious about ending. I can think about backing up and not moving forward until I'm sure, but I'm not gonna end something because wildlyuninteresting gave their opinion. You make sense, but there's nuance that me in the drunk state can't fully put in this post. Options don't come to me as easily and I don't wanna lose the one chance I have without thinking it through. I just wanted opinions outside of my own
My ex fiancee dumped me (after financially abusing me, and bullying me to the point that I feel worthless if I'm not working, btw, and she dumped me in 2021. The trauma scars run deep, I still don't like having time off because she called me lazy, and it hurt me so much that I just… don't like having down time, even now).
She worked a swing shift job, and had a full week off once a month, and I was still the one doing all the cleaning, all the laundry, etc, because “I'm paying for everything, and you don't work as naked as I do”…
As I was working 7 days a week, for 3 months straight…
Jeez, looking back, it really was THAT bad, wasn't it…
Sounds like you want to date other people at work but you need to find yourself a new dating pool. Dating at work as teens or early 20s is just a recipe for disaster. The emotions are too high and having so little experience dating makes everything seem super serious, so when things end everyone is negatively affected. As an example this guy. He’s not in love with you. You met a month ago. He clearly doesn’t know the difference between infatuation and love. But also be aware you ARE giving him signals that you are interested if you are going to his place and kissing him etc. so it’s not all in his head.
You can’t get out of it without it being awkward, hence my statement about finding a new place to look for dates. You just have to sit him down and say that while you appreciate how he feels and the time you’ve spent together, you are just not compatible longer term. It’s going to hurt him. And you’re going to feel awkward.
You just spent 10 years as your sister’s husbands side piece instead of pursuing a happy healthy relationship of your own. This sounds like some mede up fantasy but if that’s the case, go get your own man.
Do you have a history of being abused either as a kid or in past relationships? The kind of response you’re talking about reminds me of the “freeze” response which has been added to the fight or flight instinctual responses to stressful situations, along with “fawn.” If this is a trauma response, there’s a kind of trauma therapy called EMDR that can be helpful in unlearning these types of responses and learning to process stressful situations differently.
Either way I would sit down and think (at a time when you are not in distress) about what it feels like physically in your body when this type of response happens. For me I often get a sinking feeling in my stomach, sometimes sweating or lightheadedness. Think about what the physical and emotional symptoms of this are for you and try to be ready to recognize them should they come up.
Then talk to your partner about the fact that you’ve noticed this about yourself and decide together what types of alternate ways you could work through these situations together when they come up. You could take a break to calm down and come back to talk later, speak over text message instead of in person, etc etc. Figure out something that’ll take care of both of your needs in these kinds of situations.
Then, when a you are in a situation and notice yourself shutting down, take a deep breath, let your partner know you’re shutting down, and do whatever you guys agreed upon.
You don't understand words you are using or you are awfully dumb and lazy person if you think three replies are “being invested”. The rest I'm not even going to read, because you are repeating same excuses and bs from the beginning. Just don't be surprised when it will come back to bite your ass.
I had a girlfriend like that once. She told her parents she had been having sex with her previous boyfriend, did not like taking precautions. She asked on the second date for sex. I refused her, and kept it as a platonic relationship while it lasted. I, personally thought she was under age and had been doing it for a few years with this chap, and was lying that they had broken up.
If he smell like ass he gotta go
I'm in England
When I was in a car accident that totaled my car many years ago, complete and utter strangers stopped and showed me more care and concern than your boyfriend is showing you.
He's not behaving the way someone who cares about another person behaves. Actions expose truth.
No but we expect 17 year olds to be fucking supportive when their partner almost dies
It's not that we don't see each other, we really miss some quality time…
Girl take his phone and sent a selfie of you with the caption “ you love to talk to guys in relationships ?”. Even if she doesn’t know she will never talk him again . The pack your stuff and leave
If you keep putting yourself in a situation over and over again, you will fail. If you act like it isn't possible to cheat and she is crazy, controlling, and insecure, then you are rationalizing what you are doing. Switch it around. She is the one being alone with guys. How would you feel about that? Don't give a hypothetical answer you “think” you would do. Really think about it.
Groooooooooooss
I wouldn't be going anywhere near him.
Hit her up. You are over thinking.
Ok, but do you really think someone who would break up immediately would want to be poly? He doesn’t need to hear her out if he would break up with her no matter what she could say if that was a deal breaker for him.
This brings to mind a line I've seen bandied about in this and similar subs: Your mental health issues are not your fault, but they are your responsibility.
Your wife has two options: seek and adhere to treatment, or continue to harm you and your child.
If she chooses the latter option, you need to get out of there, preferably with your child.
Thanks, I know this is the right answer. It’s just a shitty situation. I’m still very hurt by what happened and I know I’ll be forced to be around it once she’s back into it. I don’t know if I’m ready to return.
Let it end. To smooth things over, the most I’d do is send her a gift card for her favourite coffee place (enough for her usual order), and a card thanking her for her companionship while you found your footing in the new workplace, and just wish her the best. The last thing you (or she) want to deal with is workplace drama.
You should tell him yeah, as you know that he would want to know. He deserves to be able to make an informed decision yeah.
Common law marriage she only has to introduce you as her husband to other people, which gives her rights. Look it up in your state (assuming you are in US)
I can handle my problems however i want to. If I was just laughing it away, I wouldn't have posted at all. I do need to talk to a professional. I 100% get that it's a lot of stuff I need to deal with, but the relationship isn't serious enough to be extremely serious about ending. I can think about backing up and not moving forward until I'm sure, but I'm not gonna end something because wildlyuninteresting gave their opinion. You make sense, but there's nuance that me in the drunk state can't fully put in this post. Options don't come to me as easily and I don't wanna lose the one chance I have without thinking it through. I just wanted opinions outside of my own
Man do I feel this in my soul.
I work 60+ hours a week..
My ex fiancee dumped me (after financially abusing me, and bullying me to the point that I feel worthless if I'm not working, btw, and she dumped me in 2021. The trauma scars run deep, I still don't like having time off because she called me lazy, and it hurt me so much that I just… don't like having down time, even now).
She worked a swing shift job, and had a full week off once a month, and I was still the one doing all the cleaning, all the laundry, etc, because “I'm paying for everything, and you don't work as naked as I do”…
As I was working 7 days a week, for 3 months straight…
Jeez, looking back, it really was THAT bad, wasn't it…
Why don’t you discretely follow him for once?
Thanks, I haven't thought about it that way.
Sounds like you want to date other people at work but you need to find yourself a new dating pool. Dating at work as teens or early 20s is just a recipe for disaster. The emotions are too high and having so little experience dating makes everything seem super serious, so when things end everyone is negatively affected. As an example this guy. He’s not in love with you. You met a month ago. He clearly doesn’t know the difference between infatuation and love. But also be aware you ARE giving him signals that you are interested if you are going to his place and kissing him etc. so it’s not all in his head.
You can’t get out of it without it being awkward, hence my statement about finding a new place to look for dates. You just have to sit him down and say that while you appreciate how he feels and the time you’ve spent together, you are just not compatible longer term. It’s going to hurt him. And you’re going to feel awkward.
You just spent 10 years as your sister’s husbands side piece instead of pursuing a happy healthy relationship of your own. This sounds like some mede up fantasy but if that’s the case, go get your own man.
Hell, based on your replies and attitude, I want to block you here lol
Don't do it – you would also be breaking up a family. People change and women especially change after becoming parents. Don't do it.
Well, he looked at your pics when you were 18. Why didn’t it gross you out then?
Do you have a history of being abused either as a kid or in past relationships? The kind of response you’re talking about reminds me of the “freeze” response which has been added to the fight or flight instinctual responses to stressful situations, along with “fawn.” If this is a trauma response, there’s a kind of trauma therapy called EMDR that can be helpful in unlearning these types of responses and learning to process stressful situations differently.
Either way I would sit down and think (at a time when you are not in distress) about what it feels like physically in your body when this type of response happens. For me I often get a sinking feeling in my stomach, sometimes sweating or lightheadedness. Think about what the physical and emotional symptoms of this are for you and try to be ready to recognize them should they come up.
Then talk to your partner about the fact that you’ve noticed this about yourself and decide together what types of alternate ways you could work through these situations together when they come up. You could take a break to calm down and come back to talk later, speak over text message instead of in person, etc etc. Figure out something that’ll take care of both of your needs in these kinds of situations.
Then, when a you are in a situation and notice yourself shutting down, take a deep breath, let your partner know you’re shutting down, and do whatever you guys agreed upon.
Is this even the right subreddit for this?
This is the correct subreddit if you want to be told that you need to immediately end the relationship, not if you want real relationship advice
So you’re take is ignore it
She was INTERESTED in him. You are willfully being ignorant.
I hope you're happy.
Jesus I couldn’t imagine how my wife would react if I was making new female friends and talking with them all the time.
You don't understand words you are using or you are awfully dumb and lazy person if you think three replies are “being invested”. The rest I'm not even going to read, because you are repeating same excuses and bs from the beginning. Just don't be surprised when it will come back to bite your ass.
Exactly. Enough is enough for this petulant adult child.
He was there. You're just making shit up now