She really has no love left for Tom and plans to leave within the next year or so. She just doesn't want him to be homeless and unable to continue his recovery.
Ya I imagine it would've been devastating if she told you then but I think now you've proved to each other love can blindside you and when it does you're often the most happy. She probably had no idea she would fall in love with you, and now she probably thanks her lucky stars she ended up with you and not the other guy.
Fate and timing are fickle things, sometimes what seems obvious now turns out to be the worst decision later and vice versa, I'd move past it because who you two are now are probably way different people than you were then anyways.
Foreplay can be as long or as short as needed. There isn’t a set time. Some people need little to no foreplay to get aroused and wet and some people need more time. Either way is ok, as long as he is waiting for you to get there.
Thank you for being so helpful!
Listen to your gut. You're not married yet and there's already so much resentment and conflict. Not good
She really has no love left for Tom and plans to leave within the next year or so. She just doesn't want him to be homeless and unable to continue his recovery.
This is exactly it! Don’t send the letter OP.
Ya I imagine it would've been devastating if she told you then but I think now you've proved to each other love can blindside you and when it does you're often the most happy. She probably had no idea she would fall in love with you, and now she probably thanks her lucky stars she ended up with you and not the other guy.
Fate and timing are fickle things, sometimes what seems obvious now turns out to be the worst decision later and vice versa, I'd move past it because who you two are now are probably way different people than you were then anyways.
Foreplay can be as long or as short as needed. There isn’t a set time. Some people need little to no foreplay to get aroused and wet and some people need more time. Either way is ok, as long as he is waiting for you to get there.