This is not a mild issue. This is a severe addiction. You have to decide whether or not you’re willing to be in a relationship where both your physical and emotional intimacy needs come second to porn.
IMHO, it doesn’t seem like this man has much concern for you or your feelings at all. He openly stated that he’s distant during sex because he can’t finish while thinking about you, so what attraction does he have for you? He’s framing this as a problem that you have with his masturbation, and not as an addiction that he has, and in doing so, is ultimately leaving you with the short end of the stick. You’re just meant to deal with an unsatisfactory sex life because he has an addiction that he refuses to fully address? Yeah, fuck that.
OP, nobody wants their partner choosing anything or anyone over them, especially at a constant rate. I think you know exactly what needs to be done here.
No one in Seinfeld was gay, they were just immature and too self-absorbed to be in a relationship. Including Elaine herself
Why? You are just being set up to see if anything is there, so just go and have fun. Why does she have to matter at this point?
Lol just because someone here doesn’t have the exact words you can say to get your way doesn’t mean it’s not advice.
This is not a mild issue. This is a severe addiction. You have to decide whether or not you’re willing to be in a relationship where both your physical and emotional intimacy needs come second to porn.
IMHO, it doesn’t seem like this man has much concern for you or your feelings at all. He openly stated that he’s distant during sex because he can’t finish while thinking about you, so what attraction does he have for you? He’s framing this as a problem that you have with his masturbation, and not as an addiction that he has, and in doing so, is ultimately leaving you with the short end of the stick. You’re just meant to deal with an unsatisfactory sex life because he has an addiction that he refuses to fully address? Yeah, fuck that.
OP, nobody wants their partner choosing anything or anyone over them, especially at a constant rate. I think you know exactly what needs to be done here.