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Date: October 25, 2022
People saying that the bf is controlling, insecure, that OP dodged a bullet; may be right. But the bf made a boundary. OP accepted that boundary. Now she has broken it. Where does the bf have to draw the line? Must he move it to a kiss on the cheek? Or a bit of tongue?
I'm sorry OP. Personally, I would never have made or accepted that boundary. You did. Now you've broken it. Maybe you can explain it to him. Maybe it will make no difference. Never accept something that you know you can't stick too. Even if you love him.
Good luck.
As someone who has had a vasectomy can I just correct a mistake you made. Vasectomies CAN be reversible, with the important word being can. It’s not contraception, it’s sterilisation. Also you will really struggle to find any surgeon who will do a vasectomy at 20.
Eh? Why would he compliment another woman if he’s married? I dont understand how you dont see anything wrong with it,what if your boyfriend or girlfriend complimented someone else while youre on a relationship with them?
Why did you marry him? He doesn’t seem to respect you at all. I wouldn’t tolerate being in a relationship where I am never heard and all my requests are ignored. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s actually in love with this friend of his and just using you. Don’t let his friend move in, they’ll try to kick you out.
Good luck in life.
What in the fresh hell is your husband eating? In my 31 years of life, I’ve only ever clogged the toilet once. And I didn’t need to plunge it to fix it… just squirted some dish soap in the bowl with my mess, let it sit for 10min, and then it flushed down very easily.
If your husband is clogging the toilet that frequently, either there’s something wrong with his diet, his bowels, or the toilet.
Does having autism automatically preclude you from also being an elitist snob?
I would move on and find someone who suits you.
I could try to go to therapy again. Been a few years though and honestly never went for myself. Though I’m not in college. Currently working at a pretty physical job at my mom’s.
I wouldn’t flirt with others since it’s so wrong, but yeah you’re right. I could do better, kinda sucks I somewhat begged him not to leave. Plus I wouldn’t trust either myself or him not to do anything. Had to get him not to hurt himself when he decided to stay since he kept saying he needed to “pay for his sins”.
Thanks. I've become comfortable seeing her regularly, then I'm not seeing her at all.
Wow the totally turned that conversation on you. He made it about him and his trauma and manipulated you into not arguing with him.
You’re not supposed to use your trauma as a trump card in arguments. You can have trauma and still be an asshole. He’s not considering your feelings at all.
You have a tender heart so you want to sooth him but you’re ignoring how you got into this situation. He has ignored and disrespected you. He has destroyed you sense of home and your future. On top of that he told you he doesn’t love you.
As long as you pity him he will use that to control you. As long as you love him so much you won’t be able to see the red flags.
They are dependents, or did you not read? They have disabilities where they can not live on thier own..
If she was he wouldn’t have said anything. Something I’ve noticed is how people complain less when their partner is bi cause they know how stupid their insecurity is especially since it would cause the partner to not be able to hang with anyone.
literally stopped reading at dating for 3 months…what the actual fuck
no advice, just what yhe fuck
I don't care what my husband “likes” on social media.
That's because maybe you have decided “that's when it should be easiest”.
Don't.
On a Sat or Sun afternoon or holiday, set yourself a small ACHIEVABLE goal:
“For the next 6 seconds, I am gonna focus on only him.”
It will still be a farce. It will – or might fail.
That's OK.
Just focus on 5 seconds.
And it will become way easier if you share this with him.
If not – OK – just build it into your plan.
By not ever saying that to OP. By not ever asking that. By not ever discussing that with each other in the first place. If you are that attracted to someone where you will ask your partner to fuck them you need to fix that and shut it down. I’ve never felt like fucking anyone but my partner when I’m in a relationship. And if they wanted to they could while single. It’s so disrespectful to even assume your partner would be okay with you fucking their bestfriend just because you asked.
is that weird?
This is good insight. You’re right that I’d essentially be seeking out the things lacking in my relationship and potentially catch feelings, which is the last thing I want.
Please listen to the cautious part of your brain. He’s already being evasive and too busy to talk…my guess is he’s probably messaging a bunch of different women. Move on. And DEFINITELY don’t travel to a different country to meet him.
Attempting to police your partner’s friendships can only lead to dysfunction and toxicity.
Your insecurity is your issue to deal with. No therapist on the planet would prescribe “banning your bf from speaking to his female friend” as a treatment for YOUR anxiety.
By, “did a little research” what do you mean? Did you go through her phone or socials? How do you know his age? Also, if you're not exclusive y'all are both free to do as you wish. If you see something more serious as a potential for this girl, then talk to her and see if she could see y'all being monogamous at some point and where you stand together. Don't ask about the other guy until you define where you are.
Ask him to help you make a budget and see how long it takes him to understand that isnt possible on your current income. Hopefully you will both come together to a compromise of you paying between 20-35% of the bills.
Good luck in this OP, financial incompatibility is a real struggle in relationships, hope yall can make it out the other side