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Miki, 18 y.o.
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Date: October 24, 2022
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It is not a deal breaker for me at all, it’s expensive and time consuming and not everyone is able to. If it was a deal breaker for someone I would consider that a red flag. My ex used to berate me constantly for not having a degree and thought he was always right in arguments because he had a history degree lmao
In response to “I don't know what to do or who to talk to” 1) eat less, move more 2) talk to a nutritionist and a therapist
Yeah ur right as much as it hurts I do understand her perspective that I'm not a really a reliable person to be with. And also I'm trying to better myself on my own but tbh sometimes I'm not sure who I'm bettering myself for anymore and it's just hot to wrap my head around where my motivation comes from and what is and isn't healthy motivation if that makes sense. Cause I pull a lot of motivation out of negative emotions and I'm not sure if that's healthy because I'm making progress or if it's really counterproductive.
Welp, this relationship died before it even began.
Time to start finding yourself attracted to someone else.
Unless you like having a drama filled existence with much angst, anxiety, etc in which case, go for it.
Yes. Yes you should.
I mean, I (and anyone else) don’t really know the dynamic of your relationship. It became more of a need for details when you said she’s free to do lots of things sexually, because that context is important. To me, that reads as though you’re essentially in an open relationship. Just need more clarity on that.
Either way, I want to look at this from both perspectives and opine accordingly. If you’re in a completely monogamous relationship, I don’t know if I’d necessarily define the action as cheating, but that’s nothing more than my opinion. Like I said in my first comment, it’s objectively inappropriate, so whether it’s “cheating” or not is just semantics.
I’d honestly love to know how the situation even happened. Why was she in nothing but panties? Why was she dancing with them? Why were they groping her? To be honest, the craziest thing here that you sort of glossed over is the fact that these two guys are people you said were your friends. Let’s ignore your feelings about her for a second; you good with your friends groping your girlfriend? You made no comment on your feelings towards them. That honestly to me is more problematic. I digress.
Let’s say you’re in an open relationship. Unless you communicated this boundary, maybe she thought she was acting perfectly fine given the nature of your relationship. To come back to your friends, did they think it was fine too?
You’ll have to clarify all of this, because I want to make sure I’m providing correct advice. As for “consequences,” that would logically be ending the relationship. Why? Because if this was truly an act that she knew was inappropriate, then not breaking up with her just tells her that she can cross boundaries whenever she wants, because she knows you’ll never do anything about it.
The worst part though is that she’s making you out to be in the wrong, which means she thinks she’s done nothing wrong (and maybe that’s the truth based on how you respond to my questions). You need to decide if she’s done something wrong based on your personal boundaries which ideally you’ve discussed. If she has, then don’t let her gaslight you.
On another note, alcohol is never an excuse. Don’t ever allow it to be used as one.
This was a really gross creative writing story.