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That would be one hell of an update!
But that would never happen. You're really worried he'd do that? Nahhh. I mean if it gets worse take him to a hypnotist or something.
My mom still calls me by her sister's name sometimes, but she still talks to both of us on a regular basis. She doesn't forget who she's talking to, her wires just get crossed sometimes.
Here, maybe this helps. For 10 years Suzie was his person. That time is o-ver. Now you're his person. That place, literally that place in his brain, is for you now. Those neuropathways travel through the same spot. Crossed wires. Just like when a kid calls the teacher Mom. Mom is usually the woman telling you what to do, but now it's Teacher. Crossed wires. The name is just a word, a rose by any other name etc.
If anything, don't freak out and don't freak him out. It doesn't sound like he likes thinking about her. The more anxiety built up around the issue, the more intrusive thoughts he could have, meaning the longer time it takes for her to leave
Despite him doing everything you've asked to “heal” you clearly still resent him for what he did and likely always will. Now that you've done the same to him he will forever feel the same about you and the trust is likely broken on both ends forever. Best to start over with someone and not subject each other to any of this for a solid long term relationship.
I guess after talking though it – i felt like we both made mistakes.
After talking though it – i felt like it was a mistake on both ends. boundaries, saying it wasn't okay etc. en he's sick he likes to be alone, and when I'm sick – I like to be cared for.
He also eventually spoke to the woman and talked about how it was acceptable, to set up boundaries with her but yes, they are ultimately still friends.
It feels like lots of details are missing in this story. I guess they have their own house, and he paid for it since OP isn't working? What is she contributing to the relationship to be making such demands exactly?
Also, OP mentioned in another comment that she lied about their ages. Age matters in this context. Is OP's partner a fresh graduate?
I think the bigger red flag here is OP's lies and omission of relevant details.
If she either fails to grasp just how bad the optics of this little peccadillo are, or tries to paint you as the villain in the wake of this screwup, she’s not relationship material.
That would be one hell of an update!
But that would never happen. You're really worried he'd do that? Nahhh. I mean if it gets worse take him to a hypnotist or something.
My mom still calls me by her sister's name sometimes, but she still talks to both of us on a regular basis. She doesn't forget who she's talking to, her wires just get crossed sometimes.
Here, maybe this helps. For 10 years Suzie was his person. That time is o-ver. Now you're his person. That place, literally that place in his brain, is for you now. Those neuropathways travel through the same spot. Crossed wires. Just like when a kid calls the teacher Mom. Mom is usually the woman telling you what to do, but now it's Teacher. Crossed wires. The name is just a word, a rose by any other name etc.
If anything, don't freak out and don't freak him out. It doesn't sound like he likes thinking about her. The more anxiety built up around the issue, the more intrusive thoughts he could have, meaning the longer time it takes for her to leave
Despite him doing everything you've asked to “heal” you clearly still resent him for what he did and likely always will. Now that you've done the same to him he will forever feel the same about you and the trust is likely broken on both ends forever. Best to start over with someone and not subject each other to any of this for a solid long term relationship.
I guess after talking though it – i felt like we both made mistakes.
After talking though it – i felt like it was a mistake on both ends. boundaries, saying it wasn't okay etc. en he's sick he likes to be alone, and when I'm sick – I like to be cared for.
He also eventually spoke to the woman and talked about how it was acceptable, to set up boundaries with her but yes, they are ultimately still friends.
It feels like lots of details are missing in this story. I guess they have their own house, and he paid for it since OP isn't working? What is she contributing to the relationship to be making such demands exactly?
Also, OP mentioned in another comment that she lied about their ages. Age matters in this context. Is OP's partner a fresh graduate?
I think the bigger red flag here is OP's lies and omission of relevant details.
Alexa; play ‘bye bye bye’ – Nsync
You sound like his mother lol
If your smart enough for medical school – you should be smart enough to figure this one out. It’s a no brainer
If she either fails to grasp just how bad the optics of this little peccadillo are, or tries to paint you as the villain in the wake of this screwup, she’s not relationship material.