You, IMO are making your GF feel this way. Your actions and eyes and body movements when your EX is around can be very telling. You also don't seem to care how this makes your GF feel and are getting upset with her and blaming her for being insecure and/or jealous. You are also saying that she has no reason to feel this way and you are dismissing her and disrespecting her. You also are not willing to compromise your life and friends and your EX for the sake of your GF. There isn't anything you can do except cut contact with your EX and you can't and won't do that. No future GF will put up with this from you, which is why I said you are to blame. Break up and set her free
Assuming that he's going to be a husband is a stretch. Idk about the other things being assumptions. I don't know the particulars of the arrangement but I don't think 3k is worth ruining it with a good guy. Assuming he's a good guy
Perfect time for anal….
You, IMO are making your GF feel this way. Your actions and eyes and body movements when your EX is around can be very telling. You also don't seem to care how this makes your GF feel and are getting upset with her and blaming her for being insecure and/or jealous. You are also saying that she has no reason to feel this way and you are dismissing her and disrespecting her. You also are not willing to compromise your life and friends and your EX for the sake of your GF. There isn't anything you can do except cut contact with your EX and you can't and won't do that. No future GF will put up with this from you, which is why I said you are to blame. Break up and set her free
Assuming that he's going to be a husband is a stretch. Idk about the other things being assumptions. I don't know the particulars of the arrangement but I don't think 3k is worth ruining it with a good guy. Assuming he's a good guy
I think it’s best to keep the honesty flowing, you should tell her everything you felt comfortable sharing above and more.
Why a house before you get married?
Why not get married before a house?
Exactly. If he hates it so much there then he can just leave imo. How ungrateful and childish