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Tease you with my perfect boobs [3 tokens remaining]
Date: October 24, 2022
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Leave.. Threatening to cause harm isn't good and it's very toxic, if anything it could be manipulation and emotional abuse. This is not a good woman and you won't miss anything by breaking up with her.
Take care of yourself first.
Also, you “not liking how he told you no” speaks of unhinged entitlement. You are not owed a hook up or a better explanation. He told you no, deal with it.
It's not manipulation, as she's not trying to get you to do something. Keep reminding her you're not a mind reader, if you didn't give the answer she expected. If she asks you what she should eat or wear, answer her half the time (pick either option, doesn't matter) and the other half the time say, “I don't know, you pick.”
These months will become years. Don't let it. Put your foot down now.
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Agreed 100%. It's common courtesy to at least tell your friend after so he doesn't hear from someone else
Could just be you both need more space/distance when you sing/hum
But ultimately I think you should look for someone who loves your singing so you don’t have to squash it on the reg
I feel everyone’s being a bit extreme lol. We have a very loving relationship.
I never say anything mean about her personally, I’m never attacking her personality or appearance. Maybe I should have been more clear in my post.
All jokes are followed with kisses and us laughing. She takes the piss out of me too sometimes and I find that funny.
Forget it though, you come to this group for advice and just get attacked ?
OMG. The things people put up with never ceases to amaze me.
You’re paying all the bills for this abusive c***. Why not just leave?
When does it become our responsibility for the way we allow others to treat us?
Fuck dude. That's bad. What you said at the end. I guess I should just move on. I'm sorry if I've offered anyone with this post but I really needed some clarity. I don't want to ruine anyone's lives here.
He’s not clearly in love with her. They sound like friends
I’d date a promiscuous partner over someone who provokes bar fights any day, but that’s just me
It seems to me that this might be normal for the first few weeks or months but two years in and you are still planning all of your activities together?
I guess the main question is, what is it that you would like to be different? You hint at it here but you don't really come out and say it. I think you need to have that discussion with her. Do you talk on the phone or interact in any other way outside of these “narrow moments”? Is she an introvert or something like it and just does not want frequent human interaction?
If you want her to take a more active part in your relationship, I think you have to say it. For instance, she should plan every other activity. Or at least one activity a month. Or whatever it is. Or, perhaps the conversation you need to have is, “where is this relationship headed?” If you are hoping that this is going to lead to more intimacy but you can't really know if she is the one because your interaction is so limited, then perhaps you need to find more ways to spend more time together. Have you taken a trip together before? A weekend away? A two week trip? Somewhere in between?
At any rate, you need to talk to her about it on one of your dates. Tell her why you'd like to see her more often in a less structured way.
Hey, I don't want to but if you keep harrassing me I'll report you to HR.
Can you not move back to family or in friends? I’m not sure on which country you’re in but you can you not rent a room? Stop sleeping with him. He knows you’re not 100% in the relationship anymore so he’s trying a few things to keep you his. Make a plan on how you’ll leave.