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Date: October 24, 2022
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BF needs to drop the rope! If he doesn't see his mom is a problem, then you need to decide if he is worth the stress.
Lol I'm not naive in the slightest. I'm just saying there's two sides to every situation. If she hasn't done anything since I would say chalk it up to a stupid mistake and work through it. If she's stayed true to her marriage vows and not fucked anyone else since, then it's work through able. When you're coming out of toxic relationships, there's potential power dynamics and even potential issues of violence of coercion, I'm not saying be doesn't have a right to he hurt, but I think he needs to ask why's she telling him now and go from there. If it's just that she wad pressured Into sex with a toxic ex when they were barely in a long distance relationship year ago, I don't see it having much bearing on how things are now. Everyone wants to throw relationships away on here, but I guarantee you he's probably done shitty things in the last 13 years too. Nothing is every as black and white as reddit wants it to seem
Why do you think she has such trust issues with you? It sounds like there is a bigger issue and bigger piece of the story that is missing. If this relationship is so volatile and unstable, why put effort into it? Why not simply walk away?
Unfriend, unfollow, etc. This is shit you don't need or want. Block her and him.
I made often the first move but they end up asking me if I fancy a joint and that's how it ends
I mean, this sort of says it all. You lead very different lifestyles. They dress alternative and smoke and etc. You don't. Stuff like that probably matters a lot more than how you are dressed.
If you 'other' them when around them even a fraction as much as you do in this post they likely sense you aren't really comfortable there.
Being in a relationship should mean that you trust your partner. Either you trust him or you don’t. I have a good guy friend that I’ve known for 25 years or so. We were boyfriend/girlfriend in middle school and had a very brief fling (making out only) for a few weeks in high school. We’ve always been good friends after that and have kept in touch throughout his many relationships and my marriage. My husband is absolutely fine w/us being friends (talking, seeing each other, etc) and they’ve hung out before as well.
A few years back, when my friend met his now ex-wife, she made him delete my # from his phone and essentially stop being my friend. He did it and resented her for it. I was hurt because we care about each other but are very different people who have no desire to be together romantically, so it seemed ridiculous that I lost a friend over her insecurities. I was hoping to get to know her like I have some of the other girlfriends he’s had, but she wanted me to just not exist. They divorced within a couple of years and we are back in touch now.
Out of respect, I always tell my husband when we talk, but he doesn’t care at all. He trusts me and I’m the same way with him. If my friend comes to town, me, my husband, and him will get together. But if my husband can’t make it, he always tells us to go ahead and catch up without him. Relationships are so much easier when you don’t let jealously, insecurities, or trust issues get in the way.
If OP and you consider it creepy, that's your prerogative.
OP clearly had his mind made up before making this post, and all he was looking for is people agreeing with him.
Lol….your dad competing with your gf and marking his territory. What a bizarre family
Having kids should not be “spontaneous”. It should be a decision made carefully, over time, where your wife is sure that’s what you both want. She’s not there yet, in the meantime she is choosing a very reliable contraceptive method that can be removed and reversed at any time. Just because an IUD has a lifespan of 5-10 years doesn’t mean it HAS to stay in for that long.
My biggest concern with your attitude is that you seem to want her to suddenly, in the throes of passion, ask for a baby, and that it will happen immediately. It takes most couples 6-12 months from deciding to stop all contraceptives until they conceive. You can, and should, be able to cope with having that romantic conversation and then her scheduling an appointment for removal as part of the process. Additionally, this is the same thing that she’d have to go through for something like the implant you’ve suggested, so your “it must be spontaneous” attitude is inconsistent.
You need to have a rational conversation with your wife about what your lives could look like child free or with children, and really listen to where she’s at. Parenthood should never be the default – too many kids are raised by parents who only sort of wanted them. If it’s not a 100% hell yes from both of you, it’s a no.
Your brother is in charge of scheduling his wedding, right? Why would he do it on the same day as your graduation? Do the times overlap?
Look, if you injured your partner and he was unable to fully recover from it, if you felt guilty and wanted him to forgive you, would you become annoyed if he healed more slowly than you expected?
Or would you support him in healing and feel lucky to have a chance to make amends?
The answer to that is crucial in understanding if you love him. The same is true for him. If he loves you in a real, meaningful way, he will help you to heal. If he doesn’t want to do that, he doesn’t love you with enough depth and he will definitely injure you again.
And that therapist is so completely out of line. Kick him to the curb immediately, your self esteem does not need his bs.
Yes. Even bio parents deal with teenagers being little shits. It’s usually a tough time for all parents. Teenagers are going through a tough transition in life. They often pull away while trying to figure out who they are becoming. They can lash out and be quite cruel to parents who have given them nothing but love. It takes so much patience dealing with them at this age, but on the other side there’s the potential of having a great adult relationship with the people they are becoming. He’s talking about “starting over”. He can go get himself a new young wife, have a couple more kids, and do this all again in his 60s because those kids are going to be teenagers eventually. It seems his wife may be more aware that you can’t clamp down on them and force them to not be teenagers. Maybe it would help OP to get some perspective from a counselor.
She’s either a prick teaser who loves the attention or she doesn’t give a shit about your feelings.
Talk to her again. If this behaviour is a deal breaker for you (and I agree it’s unacceptable to openly encourage someone she knows likes her) then you may have to break up.
You’re young. She’s immature. This is how you decide what you want from a partner and what you don’t for when you start looking seriously.
She may not be the one for you.
So that's a yes?
Honestly it sounds like a lot’s going on here.
I think his concern that you have lost interest in a shared hobby you used to bond over is a lot more serious than you seem to think. It probably feels to him like you think he’s a stupid loser for liking the things he does. And, if i’m right, he’s not ever going to frame it like that in discussions with you. So you’re going to get defensive, evasive bullshit non-answers.
Side note, reddit tends to take OP’s (your) side. OP gets to frame the discussion and give a one-sided account. But there’s often relevant things the OP leaves out: what have you been doing, not for yourself or apart from him, but with him? You might rightly think “i already do so much” but the relative change is something he feels and is very real to him.
You’re doing fewer chores for him. You have more and more reasons to spend time apart from him. Not only that, but you are bonding with other people at the same time, and he knows it. Hence the gym boyfriend comment. He might wonder where these changes are coming from, if they’re for another person, or what.
Bottom line, he’s afraid to lose you.