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Date: October 23, 2022
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You are not a bad guy for telling the truth. She is. If you didn't tell him then you would be the bad guy.
But you didn’t even give the victim a voice before you decided he was guilty…
Are you saying that if someone falsely accused you of rape that it wouldn’t cause you to panic? I would panic because it’s a serious allegation that can ruin a life.
If my boyfriend was accused by a stranger, I won’t turn around and commit a crime in the name of “my girls” without validating the information.
Stop inviting her.
She's your girlfriend, not your assistant or your maid. Hire someone to do your dry cleaning if you can't figure out how to be a grown up and do it yourself.
I would tell her that you’re reporting the sexual assault to police. If she is insistent that you don’t do that, you have your answer
all i can say is: ew
Unfollow & block the both of them on social media, you don't need to be constantly reminded of the heartbreak as it will stop you from moving forward.
You should just ask him.
It’s completely his broken thinking so you need you follow up and ask.
also yes but no, you can just cancel on the date night respectfully instead of falling asleep on someone looking forward to the night
Move out , move on with your life . You need to find happiness and something real not a novel fantasy
They didn't do anything wrong and they were upfront about you. Either accept.it and move on or don't accept it and move on.
Have you read the post where the guys wife came out as lesbian after she had been hiding it for years?
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You are far more patient about that then I would be.
I would tell him to stop and never mention it again. He has absolutely no idea what is involved in building relationships with uninvolved birth parents and the fact that you chose to do it with your mother does not mean you should do it with your father.
I trust that he means well based on your reaction to him but I think it is time to tell him that what he is doing is both disrespectful to you as a thinking human being and also unkind. He doesn't mean to be those things but he is.
Thank you for the response. We were on a long drive home after visiting her family for the holidays. We spent much of the drive glowingly reminiscing about how we met. As we pulled in the driveway she chuckles and says “I was actually seeing someone when we started going out”. I was very surprised because I was under the impression we were open books and totally single when we met. I assumed she meant an innocent date or two. We had a lot of stuff to unpack so it kind of got brushed aside for a day until it started to eat away at me.
Confront her, maybe it is related to the trauma of his dad. I had to lie to my parent too bc they were too strict and necame fearful of telling the truth sometimes even if I realistically wouldn't get in trouble and it was very hot to change that.
If she doesn't admit it and dhows how she wants to change, leave bc this is a red flag
The thing is though, I always feel like I don't care about him enough. All the time he does little gestures or nice things to show me he cares, and it feels like all I do is complain about him not cleaning as much. That makes me feel like, if I go through with this, I'll be taking all that for granted and making him feel guilty for doing nice things for people he cares about.
Move on, and learn from this. Make it a rule in your life that you don’t say or write something which you wouldn’t want your partner to hear/read.
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And like you said, it also depends on the amount of drunk that someone is. Most people have varieties of drunk, the most common two (to my knowledge) being happy and sleepy.
Anyone who is angry when drunk is scary. Anyone who is consistently angry when drunk is someone to avoid (speaking from experience. My mother is an angry drunk, just hides her general anger on the daily pretty damn well.)
> I actually have a MS in cancer cell microbiology but heavy US medical bills are the absolute worst
That's another reason why you should leave the USA. And I'm very happy to have left.
Definitely do work on yourself, but don't do it for her, especially as the relationship has been ended. It sounds like she doesn't think you're ready for a relationship and given that we have no other information, it's very hot for us to know if that's true.
Assuming it is, improve yourself (therapy is a great step) and good luck in your future relationships down the line. If it's not, still glad you're giving therapy a try as it can give you some perspective on this breakup and anything else you're going through.
Was she super bubbly?? And did he not really notice? If so, it may just be her. I'm a guy, and we are usually oblivious to female cues. Has he given you any reason to question his loyalty to you?
I mean. He'll probably co-parent just fine!…If by co-parent you mean handing the kid over to his mom and sitting back while she takes care of both of them.
Four and a half hours to get yer freak on with some girl who is trying very hot af to make relationship happen? Small potatoes. Lie and ask for more time? That cost nothing and gets you in the sack.
Lady, I have two questions to ask.
Is this the last man on the planet? When you were little, did your momma drop you on your head?
Walk away from this dude. He is trying to get some and you are too dumb to see it clearly because you are on some demented “i-can-change-him” powertrip that is oh so very popular with the ladies since we came down from the tree.
Oh and the rest of the angries out there – if you do not like what I have to say – block me and go drama elsewhere.
girl, leave pls. you’re wasting your time
Yes, so it's all in the way you non-verbally invite her. If this doesn't work you can blame me. Talk about how very hot and oiled up these Aussies are and that you can't wait for them to strip off completely in front of you, grab you and SIL from the crowd, and give you two nude juicy lap dances on the stage. They have gigantic bulges that you can't get enough of and they aren't afraid to hangout later.
These are lies but you get the picture
Definitely say this in front of brother and SIL only, to avoid someone else chiming in and saying that's a lie
Then ask if she wants to go and don't go into detail on who all is invited or be vague on that part
He went after a 20 yesr old with 27. He try to coerce you to sex, actually nearly force you by just laying on you and you need to push him away. You are a living sex-doll for him. He jzst cares about his pleasure. You are in pain? Who cares as long as he get off! Do you really think he loves you if he treats you like this? Hurt you regulary? He abuses you. Please end it. You deserve so much better. A man that loves and respect you never does something against your will and that will hurt you.
Info: your younger brothers, are they Mum’s kids in Dad’s custody?
My mother has an all-or-nothing view of loyalty and it’s very unhealthy. Okay it’s incredibly toxic. Your mum is also making relationships that are not at all about her, about her. If these are patterns in your relationship with her, you might need some therapy. If your relationships with Dad and brothers are more healthy for you than her, you might just benefit from using the ultimatum to take some space from her.
How to do that is up to you. Pre-therapy me moved out, screened calls, and stopped answering questions that I knew were designed to create drama. Post therapy me would probably to tell her that the fact that she would threaten to abandon you over this tells you that she doesn’t seem to value you a whole lot, and you need to take some time to think about this. Therapy essentially gave me ways to think about the relationship with more objectivity and less attachment.
Having a toxic mom and not doing this work really messed up all relationships in my life, because I started out with such a warped view of what love is actually about. Being used to hurt a bunch of other relationships, ain’t it. That’s selfishness bordering on narcissistic or even machiavellian behavior and it’s not like love at all. Another sign is that she is unable or unwilling to see your perspective. That’s not what you do if you care about how someone feels or whether your offspring gets enough connection in their life. Not caring is also not love.
Interesting. I know very few people that would be okay with being secretly recorded.
And even if he was “okay” with it, there's no reason not to tell him if she's not checking up on him. This isn't your relationship. This one has the context of him already being pissed about being checked up on.
Sounds like he has a crush. She also sounds like she's crushing on him. She is worming her way in, and by constantly paying him compliments and commenting on his body she is seeking his validation. She needs him to be attracted to her that's why she had him take pictures. I would personally mention to your BF that she is really pretty and you can see why he's attracted to her. You will blow his mind and his reaction will tell you. If he truly isn't attracted to her he will delete the picture of her completely off his phone right then and there and his demeanor will change towards her. I am a firm believer in, when a man or woman constantly says bad things about someone, there annoying or I don't like the way they dress, controlling and a jerk, the more they critique them the more attracted they are to them. Good luck
Yeah. I appreciate the response.
I agree with this post actually a lot because I have thought about this. She has probably thought down the road already and knows what she can handle but at the same time I was hoping that I could help her as most would try to in any relationship with her problems.
Dude most people consider going on a date and making out, hooking up. You are making arbitrary distinctions of intimacy here IMHO.
I kind of coerced him into it.
So you raped him. If you get anything less than a clear yes, you forced your partner.
okay everyone calm down I’m not gonna do anything to the cat I’m just pissed off I’ve dealt with it for four years. If I was gonna do something I would have already
Thank you so much for the advice!
???? you look like a normal baby. id probably say you were cute if i saw you in person as a baby. she’s bejng rude and superficial anyway, id reconsider the relationship
Your baby does not have a fully developed immune system and is at a higher risk of contracting diseases, including COVID. If exposed, he is at a higher risk of developing a serious disease. Now, all of this is just statistics, it's totally possible he gets sick and is fine. So this is a matter of risk assessment that you and your wife have to make. Personally, if it was my child, the only way I would let an unvaccinated person near my baby is if they showed me a negative PCR test taken recently, and if they wore a mask the whole time, and I would also minimize the time they spend holding the baby. I don't think it's worth risking my baby's safety over someone's ignorance. The fact is that vaccines are safe and effective, and vaccinated people protect people who can't be vaccinated, which a 4-month-old baby can't.
Thank you. So far the two other comments, though I appreciate their feedback, simply jump to conclusions based on the info I've provided. There's a tendency for that on this sub. Hence I tried supplying as much context at possible, but it's dififcult to express something this complex, just outright, but especially in a (relatively) confined post.
Instead you mostly focused on the information I've provided and added your own understanding of the situation. I'm not yet sure what happens from here, but it's clear that if we are to make this work, we need to deal with the reasoning behind what she has done.
Sometimes it's difficult to see the root cause behind all of the pain, hurt and betrayal.
More of a sociopath imo. I have been in your position and having contempt for your significant other can't be fixed. You need to let him go and seek therapy. Do you happen to have ADHD? I ended up having undiagnosed ADHD which led to a lot of my relationship problems.
Here is a woman’s perspective on this one…. Dating in my early 30’s I found a LOT of men just expected us to be exclusive basically off the bat and I found that frustrating and presumptuous. A woman that age probably knows exactly what she is looking for and that it takes more than 2 dates to know if someone has it. Approach her with confidence and keep dating, if you two are the most compatible and you have a connection the other dates will just slowly disappear
Well try this new routine on for size baby…. a day to yourself where you don't have a man baby to look after, to feed, do his grocery shopping, getting to sit and eat your own meal that you want, getting to watch the tv you want to watch, getting to have free time…….trust me, without the baby around you will have SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much free time.
it's worth enjoying this alone time, and thinking about if you want to keep doing this same “beg him for love/forgiveness” game ya'll are playing.
You did everything for him, asked him for 1 thing, and it's all your fault. Why are you doing this to yourself? Go get a dog, it' s the same amount of work as his manbaby and at least the dog will be happy to see you when you get home
you just recently realized this lmao
thank you for your opinion on the matter.
i guess whenever i voice my needs it makes me feel like i am inconveniencing him. for example, yesterday i told him i feel too sick to take our dog on a walk. to which he said i can bring her over? what would you say to this after i had just told him i can’t even go downstairs and walk around the block?
both in a way, leaning more towards the latter.
Maybe think of maintaining a friendship as a “need” – no one likes to be only called when someone needs something from them.
If you do not feel safe with him this relationship is not going to work. When you're in a relationship you must always feel safe and if you do not then it's up to you what you're going to do
Sounds like you forgot in the moment that it was her work, and your behaviour made her feel undermined. I don't think you can come back from that on only your second date (which is the first real date as the initial one is like a pre-date). If you can't let go, allow yourself a short, simple apology by text with an offer to make it up to her, but if she doesn't take you up in it I think you have to respect that.
yeah my mum cut fur off of our 2 dogs before they had to be put down, i dont find that weird at all. she also has hair from her horses tail
yeah my mum cut fur off of our 2 dogs before they had to be put down, i dont find that weird at all. she also has hair from her horses tail
That doesn't un-fuck the person she had an affair with, does it?
It will become obvious if he keeps dropping these sorts of hints. If he repeats the same thing again I’d start taking note of it.
I am so very sorry. You need to speak to a lawyer asap, get trusts in place for your daughter before this all goes down. I don’t know what else to say, I feel so sad for you
I am so very sorry. You need to speak to a lawyer asap, get trusts in place for your daughter before this all goes down. I don’t know what else to say, I feel so sad for you
So I'd to date a single mom their child comes as a package deal. However, their mother does not. You are only a year in and have a pack of leaches. It won't get better from here.
Honestly, her version of a man “caring” for her is just her being a gold digger.
Look at all the liability she offers lol and she expects a man to just take on the burden with no questions or complaint
Those women who were polled chose to abort. OP’s wife doesn’t want an abortion.
Those women who were polled chose to abort. OP’s wife doesn’t want an abortion.
Yeah, no. He thinks you should show you love him by doing all the cooking. It's only one's love language if the person doing the cooking likes to cook to show their love, not the other way around. If cooking is his love language, then he'd cook for you.
Basically, it just sounds like excuses to make you agree that you should do all the cooking. He wants someone to do all the cooking and that someone is you because your his gf.
What should you do? Figure out if this is what you want in a relationship because this is the type of relationship he's offering. If it's not, then break it off and find someone who will be in the type of relationship you want to be in and this includes agreeing or at least negotiating on household chores, finances, children, worrying full or part time or staying at home, pets, etc.
You say you’ve been with him for a long time…..how long is “a long time”?
20 years ago was 2003, sperm donation started getting really popular (at least in the US) in the late 80s/early 90s.
Baby switched it’s like really uncommon right ?
You said you'd been together since you were teenagers. You go through a lot of growth in your teens to your 30s. It's normal for people to be different and have different goals compared to when they were much younger.
It sounds like you've grown apart and it's nothing personal. You're just different people to who you were. Sometimes relationships end because you're no longer on the same path or you've outgrown eachother.
It sounds like that's what happened.
Yes, I think your correct. The big thing is my hours are weird, I work for 8-10 and then 5pm to 11pm, so she will be working while I am off, but with that being said maybe I’m closing myself off to trying new possibilities on making it work.
In fact, they felt amazing physically, I even had pleasure
Yeeeah so I'm calling troll on this
In fact, they felt amazing physically, I even had pleasure
Yeeeah so I'm calling troll on this
I’m a certified canine behaviorist and trainer. If you truly love your dog, you’ll get him out of this abusive situation immediately. He’d be better off in a shelter than in a home where he’s being kicked and hit. Do you have any idea the kinds of behavioral issues that can come from this kind of abuse? Ironically, the same kind your boyfriend has. Dogs who have been abused can grow up to be fearful, anxious, and aggressive. Dogs who attack people do it because they’re afraid of being hurt. Get your dog out of your home. Do it when your boyfriend’s out. Tell him the dog ran away or something. Keeping a dog in a situation where he’s being hurt and abused isn’t love.
You could always try being loving and sympathetic, asking her why she was so upset. I’m guessing she just got a shock in realising part of her youth had left her. As you get older you’ll get many such shocks. Be kind about it, it’s not necessarily about you.
Also being stuck at home 24/7 will not help with depressions.
Username doesn't check out. You could have had an adventurous pay instead you decided to be a whiny brat