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Date: October 23, 2022
Omg she contacted you? I'm so sorry you were put through that. And yeah, this sounds quite similar. More and more I'm realizing what I thought was love om his part was probably obsession. And that obsession has been replaced replaced his new female friends and asmr girlfriend and ear licking videos. His new friends, I should point out, are the ones making the asmr. He's in a whole community now.
She might be doing that because when she has sex with you, she might be imagining/fantasizing him in your place.
You need a mediator. Call some counseling centers and see when they would be able to hold a family meeting for you.
You need to have your things. He's kinda gross
Cheating on your pregnant wife is insane. You can pass STI’s onto your baby. Some people don’t deserve to be parents or partners.
Just want to hop on top comment and hope op sees it. Youbsaid you have bruising, take photos and document your marks and possible marks on your baby as well. Unfortunately this isnt salvageable. He has no remorse, no shame, is blaminh you and it will only happen again and get worse. Work on an exit plan, talk to divorce and/or custody lawyers and get asap. If you have a family member or close friend go.
Maybe she’s incapable of taking the first step towards you. But you’ll only find out where she stands emotionally, if you reach out. Don’t let it drag out any further. It sucks that she isn’t getting in touch, but this limbo you’re in is obviously not sustainable anymore.
Ask her to meet up and talk. Make a list of things you want to talk about, so you don’t forget to mention something that’s important to you just because you’re in the heat of the moment. Express your feelings to her. Maybe also think about what financial solutions you’d find fair considering your new salary. Maybe even go over the math and have that with you. If she’s more open to rational points, this could help you to come to a better compromise. Also discuss either signing a lease with her or being added to the deed.
This honestly sounds like a few things (not a professional). But generally, it sounds like your husband has OCD. The controlling and the demanding sounds like possible OCD symptoms/ exhibited behaviors are passing the baton, so to speak, to something that would affect his fear of uncertainty, leading to a sub/conscious want or need for control. Wanting OR needing to control life, ESPECIALLY feeling the urge to control others, is unhealthy at best, and downright dangerous and damaging at worst. I think he should sit down with an IOCDF-certified counselor, or at least look into meeting with an OCD specialized psychiatrist, to look into testing for OCD. OCD is more than “my desk is so clean, I'm so quirky” or “I absolutely HAVE to do a task a certain number of times” – but cleaning/ contamination OCD is a thing, and Counting/ repetition is as well. Thoughts that seem like leaps on logic, such as “You need to wear your sandals correctly” may be coming from a place of fear that you may injure yourself, or that something negative/ bad may occur at all.
IDK like I said, not a pro. And this is not singularly OCD-based behavior, IF he is indeed experiencing and struggling with OCD. But communicating with professionals, INCLUDING marital professionals, would be a must in my opinion, if you are looking to 'fix' your relationship, or to continue being with him. It matters, too, how he responds to any form of counseling. There's something going on in his head that an unbiased, trained professional should speak with him on regards to.
Best of luck no matter what OP, having someone on your life that is trying to control you is horrible. I hope you can get what you need out of this thread, and that you can get to a positive outcome in this relationship.
Yuck. He sounds like he has control issues.
One. She was probably lying to you. You have only her word, and people like her rope partners in the same way she did you. Make you feel special and amazing like you're the only one that's ever really seen or appreciated them. You really need to look up trauma bonding, narcissistic personality disorder, cycles of abuse, and go to see a professional therapist to get out from under her grasp and you blaming yourself.
She knows it is, and is scared to talk about it in therapy, ie: “be the problem.” Have you both ever gone to couples counseling together before? If it's an issue for you, it should be an issue for you both. She has to consider how shes making you feel if she wants to remain married to you. I am so sorry you're going through this. I know it's heartbreaking.
Its their literal house, her doing this is disrespectful. Them living in their home isn’t.
She's def responding like a bot
He will get help when he feels the need to. You need help now because you feel the need. The only thing you can do is what you wish he would do: take care of yourself and what you need to deal with for yourself and you own health. Best to you.
Perfect to not kiss a random while ur dating someone.. Bruh.
I love a good passive-aggressive ??
Ghost her
I live on the North Carolina coast. The coast guard uses color coded flags on the beaches to indicate how safe it is to swim. A red flag means no swimming. The current is too dangerous.
Then there is a hurricane flag. It is two separate red square flags, one flying above the other, with a black square inside each. She is past the red do not swim flag, she is on the Hurricane flag at this point. OP needs to run!
Not a clear advice, where, what should i tell them? Got rejected a lot, end up being just a friend a lot.