that's the thing, they won't even let me give evidence. if they let me speak to them i could come on video call, show them my diploma or my ID badge, show them anything they're questioning — but they're under the impression that i'm faking all of that, down to using AI to fake a video call. i'm not even allowed the chance, they've decided to dehumanize me from the beginning. it's a stark contrast to how supportive my parents were.
Yep, this is the person he's always been, he was just hiding it until something made it harder for OP to leave- pregnancy or marriage. Talking to him will not help, the only thing that will help is getting out safely, as others have provided resources for.
I know some event organizers deal with no-shows by charging a security deposit that will be returned to the guest when they arrive in person or cancel before the deadline. But it's probably weird to do for non-professional events like weddings and birthday parties.
What does “marriage” mean to you? Is this a legal activity that grants certain rights to spouses? Is this a large party? Is this some activity done at a church?
I think you need to define what “marriage” is first to him, and then see his reaction to it.
For example, he might be fine with a ceremony in front of people, done in a church, but not fine with signing the paperwork (for whatever reason).
Never speak to your brother again ans file a police report
that's the thing, they won't even let me give evidence. if they let me speak to them i could come on video call, show them my diploma or my ID badge, show them anything they're questioning — but they're under the impression that i'm faking all of that, down to using AI to fake a video call. i'm not even allowed the chance, they've decided to dehumanize me from the beginning. it's a stark contrast to how supportive my parents were.
Yep, this is the person he's always been, he was just hiding it until something made it harder for OP to leave- pregnancy or marriage. Talking to him will not help, the only thing that will help is getting out safely, as others have provided resources for.
I know some event organizers deal with no-shows by charging a security deposit that will be returned to the guest when they arrive in person or cancel before the deadline. But it's probably weird to do for non-professional events like weddings and birthday parties.
Why are you hiding it from other people if this relationship is completely normal?
“He is my little brother!!! Get your head out of the Game of Thrones gutter and comprehend that we're not the Lannister twins.”
Leave this guy; his masturbation is a compulsion
It will always take precedence to your sexual relationship – and already has
Yes it grounds for divorce. Your husband is a fucking clown.
The real question is are you ok being with a cheater?
That's an actual question not a statement.
What does “marriage” mean to you? Is this a legal activity that grants certain rights to spouses? Is this a large party? Is this some activity done at a church?
I think you need to define what “marriage” is first to him, and then see his reaction to it.
For example, he might be fine with a ceremony in front of people, done in a church, but not fine with signing the paperwork (for whatever reason).
OP please check your writing, I can't understand it.
if I hurt his parents
Huh?
I don't understand are your parents testing your fiance like shit?
It’s not his job to support your plastic surgery plan. It’s his job to be honest with you.