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He did start the problems yes. Sounds like OP wasn't fully on board and he should have just stopped it before it happened. In my opinion I don't think people in long term monogamous couples should even bring that shit up but whatever.
But he wanted to swing. Not get into emotional exclusive relationships with other people lol. OP doesn't sound all that slow to the point that she wouldn't know what swinging means.
Baby there is a post right above yours that says almost 30% of the time men leave women when they get ill. Or something like that. Find someone who adores you and wants to take care of you. I bet you get better. This isn’t healthy and your worth is far greater than what he’s able to understand. I know you think your husband is an intelligent man, but your post tells me he’s a fool. Get out of there. You’ll both do better in the long run as he needs to see you are not disposable and he lost something of great value. Depressed or not.
Depression is that kind of beast. It likes going unnoticed, being hidden away. That isn't your fault. It's just how depression is. Depression doesn't like to burden others.
If the option is available, try to encourage him to seek out professional help. A therapist can help him a lot more than you can(not meant as an insult, but as reality). Therapists are trained to treat depression. You aren't.
You can also simply ask him “how can I help” and find ways to support him without enabling his behavior. Don't be a doormat, stand up to him when he acts in an unreasonable way. But still be his support, help him see the difference between reality and what he thinks is real.
But remember this: you can't fix someone who doesn't want to fix themselves. If he refuses to get professional treatment and doesn't improve on his own, you may have to make the hot decision.
Does he realise that or is it something you noticed?