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Oxford dictionary recently declared “Goblin mode” as word of the year. I laughed, because I've never used that term before, till now. Here it comes.. Why are you in a relationship with someone in a full goblin mode?
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It's over. You need to move on.
Also, breastfeeding is hot work for an infant – they burn through calories as the breastfeed. If this baby is “nursing” a dry nipple, he’s wasting calories (that babies desperately need) on a futile, no doubt EXTREMELY FRUSTRATING exercise! Your wife is putting your baby at a DISADVANTAGE just so she can feel better about herself. She needs to work these issues out in therapy, NOT ON YOUR BABY.
(I commented below but figured I’d put this on the top comment so hopefully OP sees it.)
My third baby spent over a month in the NICU and even after he came home he was on a feeding tube. The tube was because they didn’t want him expending any energy by breastfeeding so that his body could focus on growth and health. Breastfeeding is HARD WORK. Doing this to a baby just assuage her dysmorphia is really messed up. It would be the same as a female at birth lesbian trying to suckle her baby without doing the hormone therapy to actually produce milk – it’s selfish and cruel.
OP, your wife is actually showing HER true colors and you need to be careful. She does not have your baby’s best interests at heart, and that’s extremely concerning. Is she in therapy? If not, she needs it. If she is, they need to address this. It’s messed up.
Not sure what to make of this.
I don't think your gf has any right to make that extreme of an ultimatum.
If this friend of yours is not directing any of this towards your GF… who is she to dictate who you spend time with?
And if I am being real… Of this group, who I would want to hang out with personally:
You Your friend Your black friends Your friends girl
The person who I wouldn't want to hang out with is:
Your Gf.
She sounds kind of uptight tbh… sort of a buzz kill.
In no way do I view 'bitch' to be the same as the n word. That is an absurd reach and almost comes off as a plea to be a victim.
And lets be real. The world is getting softer. But, there are people who can understand and take a joke. Meaning, if your friend was calling his wife those names in the heat of a moment, then absolutely, its despicable.
But even in my own relationship, we don't take things seriously and have never been offended by what the other has said, its something we appreciate. And who is your GF to judge other relationship dynamics.
I am kind of leaning against the statement “her feelings are valid”… if none of this is directed at her, she has no say in the matter.
I said 6 months to be generous ? I love my friends and family but damn I do not understand their lifestyle
Sorry for misunderstanding where you are putting the blame. Blaming yourself for life moving at life's pace isn't exactly the nicest way to treat yourself either though.
It's not getting life wrong to not have found a job in your field. Plenty of people are sailing in that sea… There is a difference between recognizing you need to do more, and putting yourself down because things aren't working out ideally.
If you have a good resume & cover letter, you are applying to everything in your field even just to get a footing or experience to get the dream job when it's available… you've practiced interviews, your presenting yourself nicely at interviews… You are doing your part, those are things you can control. You are trying. Your not doing anything wrong.