0 views
Kim, y.o.
Location:
Room subject:
To Start on-line video press there
On-line Live Sex Chat rooms Kim
Date: October 23, 2022
AmateurPub
Hello /u/shitswhackbro,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Ok, so tell her to adress it with him. Tell ger if she can make him stop harassing her that's good if she can't she should leave.
Does she want to get back together? Were you just dating or were you in a serious relationship?
I'm sorry to hear that this happened to your wife. However, by her reasoning, God created a situation in which she would be raped to have this baby. I am not a religious person, but I have a hot time believing that this gid forced a man to rape her. She needs to abort the child, immediately.
If she cannot or will not do that, you need to consider divorce. I know it's cruel, but you are talking about at least 18 years of taking care of this child/person.
OP what are you going to do?
I mean it's pretty clear this guy is full of shit and treating you like the help.
Yes your being insecure, your 41 years of age, photos on a social media account don't equate to how much someone loves another person. You have only been together 5 months and your already policing her social media account, you realise at your age it will be very rare to find someone who hasn't got a history with other men. They were apart of her past, she shouldn't have to erase that because she's dating someone new.
Sounds like you need therapy for jealousy and being alittle possessive
OMG, just send him some ideas. If you can't talk to him about this you aren't ready to get engaged.
I think it is too easy to see the conflict with a major medical event, he would know the right answer and would lie to save face.
Make it something smaller and more mundane. See where his priorities lie. Because one of the biggest things in divorce is that one partner is just not there.
And if he thinks her crisis is more important than his family’s happiness, then he isn’t life partner potential.
You're in a really tough position here. You didn't say anything that's unreasonable or unfair. That said, one thing really struck me reading through this.
Every single thing you mentioned has to do with you trying to motivate her, or support her, or help her. This rarely works and you're living through that.
You do need to talk to her in general about this, but this time put the focus on yourself. It's a trickier convo, and you'll have to think carefully about what you want to say, but in a nutshell this relationship isn't working for you anymore. I actually don't think you'd be wrong to start with that, but I can see why you might not want to!
You could start more generically, and just tell her that in the healthy relationships you've been in or seen, each person brought something to the relationship,. There needs to be a certain balance that way, whether it's friends, hobbies, whatever. But you feel right now as if this has taken over the relationship and you're not having fun. That's the whole point of being in one!
One other thing. It might be the way you wrote this, but everything you say and do in here is fixated on her healthiness. If that's true, apologize to her for pushing it so much. But everything else you say provides the reason why you're doing it. This isn't fun, either.
A few times a day? Yeah you guys want different frequencies, I'm afraid. 🙁
I wouldn't really call that cheating… Though, If I was Matt, I would be upset to hear that my GF replied “That would be fun, but…” to the her male friend propositioning a threesome, instead of shutting it down hot and clear. That's probably why you feel guilty.
Have you read the posts on here on how a threesome with a friend ruins relationships?
Otherwise why are you feeling so nervous about it?
Whoa ?, wish y'all the best
Nah man. Are you sure that was her brother? How can you be sure of the ex white boyfriend story if you haven’t met her family?
If you pick me up in front of the Champs Elysees palace, would you believe I was the French president?
My man. Actions, papers (acceptance letters from the university, for example), meeting her family and not just once, friends, seeing with your eyes, not words. “She said” doesn’t mean anything.
It’s a bit odd that she isn’t/wasn’t married and she’s 36. Other stuff doesn’t add up either. Again what a person says isn’t worth the oxygen it takes to saw a few words.
Reddit makes me so sad sometimes. It's always “he's the perfect partner except for all the times he treats me like trash”.
I’d say this goes outside of your pre established trust as there wasn’t a bill to be paid or an email to be shared – you just saw a text and decided to read her entire conversation. I can imagine her feeling as if you’d crossed a line by reading her texts with a friend. I think you should be honest and tell her what you saw, since it’s affecting you. I think you framed it as “saw her texts” instead of “purposefully read her texts” because you’re aware you stepped over the line.
I’d agree with another comment or that those texts might have reflected her day-of thoughts/immediate feelings and that her willingness to try again could have come from further reflection.
You are not compatible to begin with. It’s best for both of you to move on.