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Date: October 22, 2022
Omg imagine if she could like moan this out in full
Thank you, I definitely care about his reaction as I don’t want to hurt him but it’s kind of inevitable, I just feel like over the phone/ text would be easier on both of us .
Statistically basketball players can grow past the age of 24. How does questioning my advice actually help the op if you didn't check into what I said? Good grief ??
It seems too late to change this. His idea seems different then yours.
I personally would go. Sleep on couch.
But you might want to brace yourself to be more alone that weekend. Search up where you want to go alone and how to get there. So you have atleast some fun alone when you are also going to be 3th/4th wheeled there. (inviting them always an option).
And after that; let the idea go an never do it again. Your mate has different ideas about your friendship. That can be okay too.
Go for you; set sharing quality time with friend expectations low. It might be super fun.. but you don't know if you don't go…it might be you grown apart in certain areas; but atleast you learned and had a good trip if you go in it with doing what you enjoy in philly? (and who knows.. that friend feels the same.. and you both paint the town red in whatever shared interest you might have… she might also have higher expectations being with her friend there and being a tad bummed..; and if not plenty of other fun people in philly)
People can change. Friendships too.
OR: …started a relationship, she found out about his shitty, controlling, abusive personality, became less of herself with every day that passed, every hurtful remark that made her insecure, until she was repeating the same hurtful words to her.
Next he pulls the gaslighting card, telling her she was in the wrong.
To further abuse her, he withholds love, and tells her it’s her fault.
Meets someone new, and because he has also convinced himself it’s her fault, decides to invoke a performative ultimatum to “give her one last chance to fix herself” before he starts another argument.
This is the one where he leaves her, something he has been planning all along, but didn’t want to be seen as the bad guy.
I tried so naked, he tells his mistress.
Rinse and repeat.
I wish I could 🙁 I’m finishing up college and don’t have the money to move out or I would. She knows she has this control over me and I hate it and now she ruining my relationship because of one trip I do t get it
I mean idk what advice you expected people to give when he cheated on his pregnant wife and then trickle truthed her so it's possible he's hiding even more.
Not being able to communicate properly doesn't mean you cheat. If that's how someone handles their communication issues, then they're not the one for me.
Thank you! Previous responses to my comment have made some pretty crazy assumptions about me based on my words. The comment I responded to asked the question “Why don't you just tell me what you want”. I answered that question, but nowhere did I say I torment my husband with my own problems. I'm very aware of it, how ingrained it is, and why, and I'm very conscious of trying not to let it influence my relationship in any sort of negative way.
I'm 50 years old and in a great marriage. I know my worth, and my husband treats me with the respect I deserve, but some of those lifelong responses are tough to change. Trust me when I say he has some too! Neither of us are perfect, but we respect each other, and the journeys we each took to find each other 6 years ago.
It’s still sex work – regardless how you want to spin it lol
Honestly it sounds like you both need therapy, individual and couples if you want any chance of salvaging this relationship. What you did was obviously not ok, you know that or you wouldn’t have posted here. I don’t understand why you are being so combative in your replies, but it does say a lot to your maturity level. As does your actions in trying to compete with a dead woman. Your boyfriend does not sound like he is handling the situation well, either, which is why I said he needs therapy, too. But that does not excuse your actions.
You need to come clean to him, apologize, and ask him to get into therapy with you. Or end the relationship.
God I can’t imagine if I had married one of my exes after a year?
But yea nothing in the post sounds healthy get a divorce
This isn't an uncommon problem, though you may not get a lot of useful help on reddit. I dealt with similar circumstances in a long term relationship, and my partner's refusal to seek professional help (despite recognizing her own issues) was a major factor in breaking up.
It may be useful to talk this through with your own therspist, or get her on board with couples counseling of some kind in order to get her foot in the door. Its harder to say NO when you're making it clear that you want to work together to address challenges in the relationship, rather than expecting her to jump right in to solo therapy. But that is definitely what she needs from the sound of it.
OP may not have the right to “psychoanalyze” his gf, but he has every right to expect effort from his partner and a more balanced relationship.
She raped you. You need to very clearly tell her that, get yourself tested and break off all contact with her .I'm so sorry she did that to you, she is using the fact you are younger than her to manipulate and abuse you. Run away
So it's his fault some older coworker had a crush on him that was so overwhelming, she couldn't control herself?
Take some personal responsibility, and while you are at it, some sexual harrassment training
Honestly he might have just been looking for something to do and figured might as well get his hand cream back in the process
I'm going through the exact same thing with my husband right now. We've been together 12 years and it's to the point now that we are facing divorce. If he doesn't want to change then he won't. It doesn't matter what you do. I've wasted YEARS with this man and his broken promises. It's not only killed our marriage but also my confidence, as I “just don't do it” for him anymore.
Run.
Trust is not a function of how trustworthy your partner is. Trust is a function of how much you trust YOURSELF (in this case, himself) to handle it if your partner does something you won't like.
This is a him problem. Once you start giving in to him having to check up on you all the time, it begins to take on its own personality, like an addiction. Next, he will want to know where you are at all times. He'll insist that you report in. He'll want to know who you're with and what you talked about. This just escalates, it doesn't get better.
I'm not sure he can have any kind of relationship with her if he wants a romantic relationship with you. He doesn't seem to handle the gray zone stuff very well: i.e. wanting to help a friend by making sure they have a safe space to sleep (nice action), but sleeping with the friend even well into the next day when his girlfriend traveled to class, had class, and came back.
You should think about how many times you are willing to accept his giving up when it comes to telling her 'no' in the future. He said 'no' to your boundary just fine when he slept in the same bed as his ex-FWB so it's not like he's unable to say 'no' to women. Is he scared of her? Does he need help blocking her? Is she stalking him? Is she blackmailing him? Maybe you and your bf can talk and get to the heart of why he wants to stay friends with a woman he can't set boundaries with, follows him to a new job, and pushes him beyond his comfort zone.
Divorce. You both deserve to be happy.