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Lenore (blue hear 28yrs) Melissa (red hear 21 yrs) and Jason, 28 y.o.
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Date: October 22, 2022
“I saw the notification you were at a hotel and you lied about that. Pack your shit please”
Girl are you seriously considering staying with this guy? What happens if you have a kid with him and your bf takes your child around a child groomer/r*pist? Could you on-line with yourself? I couldn’t.
This dude should be in jail and you should’ve run
Make sure you are still doing some sort of work at least part time. Even if it is just volunteering. Having a gap in your resume after your money runs out isn't going to look too good.
Bro for your sake just leave you deserve better, you shouldn’t be treated this way. I got cheated on and I know it’s fucking horrible and you want to go back but things will never be the same. Just leave now.
It’s almost like you didn’t read and skimmed certain words ☕️
Crap I always respond to a response. So annoying. Sorry average joe.
Nope, it’s not “because of you”. He CHOOSE to hire a hooker, hell he could have left you, he could have taken time like an adult to sort out his problems, or better yet even talk to you about how he is feeling,
He sounds toxic, he sounds like he flashes between two different states, (maybe BPD?). You tried to help him through his own problems with his ex and you didn’t have to stay, nor did you cheat when I’m sure things got tough.
Most relationships start with as being casual. Otherwise, it's not to much to want to be taken out somewhere for your first date. Maybe you should tell your prospective date you like to meet up for coffee or lunch before you go on your first “date”. I would avoid meeting someone first at their place unless they were cooking dinner for you.
Thats different culture and religion for you. Unfortunatly for you. If he breals with that most probably his family will disown him. Naked but easy choice. You or his family ??
If your partner is mad they arnt getting laid be up your taking care of someone who is sick then that’s a shit partner and needs to go. Conflicting events require discussion maturity of all involved. And in a real polyamorous relationship, everyone would be there for the sick person.
Also thank you for proving my point, it’s easier for you to assume that I’m insecure then consider that someone could love and manage a relationship with more then one person.
As a women in STEM, I feel sorry for his female colleagues
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Yeah but you’ve already chose this for the past 7 years. You’ve known about all these things for half a decade and are still here. If it hasn’t been enough to drive you away yet, what makes you think it will be in the future?
i will
It's emotional cheating since he got back with OP and despite continuing having feelings for this girl he didn't try to stop them and continued constant contact
They’re both gross. You just can’t seem to hear me say that they’re both irresponsible. She posts looking for help, well stop having babies out of wedlock for one. What else is there to say she’s going to leave this guy and be +1 baby. Why focus on the symptom rather than the real disease? She is hurting herself and I feel sorry so I said what I thought was needed to be said not just to her but others that may read this.
She’s going to have some serious split ends and breakage.
THIS. ALL OF THIS. I WANT TO TAKE A HIGHLIGHTER AND HIGHLIGHT THIS WHOLE COMMENT.
Lol I swear my husband looks for anything to eat and make it loud
Change the boyfriend? Don't be with someone who tells you you're too fat when you're skinny already. That's it. Have some self respect.
Have you even told him you posted all those NSFW pics on-line?
Thank you for laying it out as such. You’re undeniably right
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Yeah, I see the validity in your point. However, I'm still doubtful because he really was interested and “lovey-dovey” before he started that infernal game.
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Here's your breakup message.
“You've been nothing but disrespectful and nasty to me. I've repeatedly set boundaries and you stomp all over them. But, I'm done. We're done. Do not contact me again, it's over.”
Then block his phone number, his social media, every thing. Do not give him a chance to respond.
You need to take care of yourself, and the first step of that is getting your stuff and dumping his sorry ass.
Read the book Come As You are by Emily Nagoski. It should be required reading for all women (and men to help them understand their partners).
If you were sexually active and decent amount at the beginning, it's possible that you just have a responsive desire, and need to learn how to activate it.
If you don't know about responsive vs spontaneous sexual desires, you should do some deep reading on the topic from different books. Just Googling it and reading some articles on-line isn't going to give you enough information to property understand it.
Yeah, I hear you, but at some point, you have to say enough is enough. So do be careful to not hold out for this too long. But you can definitely see how he reacts to this.
This has nothing to do with guy or girl.
Let's coworker A is constantly flirting with coworker B. B never does it back.
If B is in a relationship, you dont think they should tell A to stop?
Of course they should. Furthermore if they do tell them to stop and they don't… you escalate it.
I forgot to write that she was with him for the last 2 years. But nevertheless thank you for a very sober and advice!
He's gay and full of BS
Wouldn’t that be years later. Who even thinks like that. If you really want someone your not even thinking oh I don’t want people down the line commenting where he’s at. You want to show that person off. I am not wrong in asking if it is a red flag. She’s allowed to have her boundaries sure but to go years where not even a hint that she’s in a relationship. I’m insecure to wonder if that’s a red flag?
No.
You sound like children. It is not possible to avoid spending one-on-one time with people of the opposite sex without coming across as a freak show. Also, this does not avoid people cheating. Cheating is, by definition, people doing things they are not supposed to do. Your establishment of a rule means nothing. People have “rules” not to cheat and they cheat. How is your rule going to mean anything? This is more about you and your partner's insecurities than anything else. I can't believe you both are in your 20s.
Agree with everything, including the edit. Lol
Do not marry this man who cares more about having access to your inheritance than he does about what you want.
Has he said why? very strange request lol
Anyways the why doesn't really matter, if you are willing to compromise and he is happy seems like no advice needed.
Has he said why? very strange request lol
Anyways the why doesn't really matter, if you are willing to compromise and he is happy seems like no advice needed.
I'm curious… How does she know what you're up to with your Dad and his AP? How is she able to “see” y'all being happy together? Is everyone talking about these interactions around her? Posting for her to see? (You can restrict things from being seen by certain people on sites like facebook…)
I can imagine how things might seem from her perspective… She was the one betrayed, but she likely feels he has been rewarded and left unscathed by his selfish indiscretions. That no one cares what he did to her. And if those people don't care, then she probably thinks they're likely to hurt her the same way, so she wants them to choose HER… Or leave her on her terms…
Therapy would be in her best interest to help her process her grief and pursue what is best for her… But her feelings, hurt, distrust and resentment isn't unfounded. Betrayal like that cuts DEEP.
It is good you're able to forgive your father. But do keep in mind that if he is willing and able to hurt someone as close to him as his WIFE and mother of his son for his own satisfaction, he is willing and able to do so to you too if he feels the benefit will be satisfactory enough to risk it. And his new AP, if she is willing to wreck a marriage, she isn't a good person to put a lot of faith in either as she also is willing to intentionally deeply hurt others for her benefit. So maintain your relationship, but do keep in mind these tigers have shown their stripes.
Id look for my own piece of mind…
Either she’s trying to “rugsweep” or he can’t ever let anything go. (Or some of both). If he’s dogging her every day about everything from the past and not taking it up with the counselor they’re seeing then there’s no hope for them anyway.
Why did you two marry if your relationship has been a shit show for 10+ years?
She has made her point clear. Sit down with her and discuss the future NOW, since you apparently haven’t done that in the last six years. Do you want kids, and if you do, what will that look like – how many, will one of you stay home with them or not, etc. What is your financial planning like, what sort of goals do you want to work towards. These are things you should absolutely talk about. And then you can decide if you want to get married, or if you want to break up with her. She hasn’t really left any other options on the table.
Does she get time for herself, like leaving the house, going out with friends, quiet place to read or do something. Have you tried talking about it when the situation isn't stressful and you can have a calm conversation
That’s what happens when you date someone at a vastly different stage in life than yourself.
I appreciate you! Thank you
I met my wife when I was 27. I'd been single for years at that point. I felt like it was hopeless.
I know you'll find someone. Don't lose hope. And don't worry too much about age, if a relationship works, it works.
I'm sorry but she can be friends with whomever she likes. Frankly it's none of your business who's she friends with, let her do her own thing.
This is great, thanks
It over. Move on. You can’t fix someone, they have to want to change themselves.
Absolute joke we cant protect our families in our own house without worrying about getting charged. Its the same way here in Canada
Well you should’ve specified it then. Especially when OP is already side eyeing the guard. You could’ve inadvertently pushed OP to report the guard for “sexually harassing” his GF when in reality you’ve been talking about the creepy stranger the entire time.
We all assumed you’re referring to the guard because of how you wrote your comment.
Delete those texts then
no one is responsible for your feelings but you
I said he had the phone number saved so clearly he did know who it was but after being upset I accepted and moved on.
You saw straight through the lie and then didn't challenge it further. How many times must he lie to you and take you for a fool before you decide enough is enough?
Remember this life advice – if she cheats with you, she will cheat on you.