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Evey, 24 y.o.
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Date: October 22, 2022
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Just feels shitty to have games played with me and say she is thinking about our relationship and needs time to be alone (she specified time to herself). Yet still emotionally relying on me.
It ISNT a 50/50 situation
It’s more like 75/25, with 75 being her fault.
Non consensual touching is wrong. Full stop. No matter what. It is toxic and abusive what she did.
I keep seeing people say “it’s just a hug from your partner!”
It is perfectly possible to sexually assault a partner. Just because he’s her fiancé doesn’t mean he is owned by her. He still has to consent to be touched by her.
Repeatedly and intentionally attempting to violate someone’s bodily autonomy and consent is NOT some minor, forgivable, tiny little thing that we should sweep under the rug.
His red flags were with the gaslighting and follow up. Her red flags were every other part of this situation.
You can forgive him, but that doesn't mean you need to stay married to him. He cheated the whole relationship, there is no coming back from this.
She is toxic and immature. The best way to deal with it is to leave tbh. She's showing you who she is, so believe her. Don't hang on to the what if's or could be's because that's setting yourself up to be manipulated or worse, abused.
If you choose to stay, encourage her to seek counseling. You can offer to go with her, even. Also boundaries, boundaries, and BOUNDARIES! I can't stress this enough. If she tries to engage in this behavior, cut it off and let her know that it won't be a productive conversation so she can either move on or leave.