You’ll never fully trust her again. That’s for the rest of your life. For the rest of your life, you’ll have creeping doubts that she isn’t faithful. Every new guy friend, every time she’s texting and you can’t see the screen. Is that what you want for your life?
It may seem difficult now, and it probably will be for a while after you leave. But at some point, if you do leave, you’ll look back on this and be glad you did.
You've got more figured out at 19 years old than I had at 29! Kudos for understanding what you want and need out of a relationship and respectfully handling a bad fit relationship for your own sake. Again, wish I had learned that as young as you did, myself!
You gotta get outta there ASAP. That dude is a straight up loser and ain't worth your time or tears. You deserve someone who treats you like a queen, not like a doormat. If he's puttin' his hands on you, that's abuse and it's illegal, not to mention just plain wrong. That's not love, that's control. You don't gotta take that kind of crap from nobody, especially not from some punk who's supposed to be your man.
Look, I know it's scary, but you gotta be strong for yourself. Call up some friends or family who you trust and tell them what's goin' down. Get yourself a safe place to stay, whether that's a shelter or a friend's couch. And if he's makin' threats, don't hesitate to call the cops. They're there to help and protect you.
And don't worry about the lease, you can handle that. You're a strong, independent woman and you got this. Just make a plan and stick to it. You deserve to be happy and safe, and you can make that happen for yourself. Don't let this dude hold you back any longer. You got this!
His brother tried to cover for him with the allergy story. He knew what was going on. He could have shut down the circus if he was such a good guy but he didn’t. At least he tried to get your bf to go talk to you. Your bf didn’t want to ruin his high by going back upstairs.
If it were me, I would end the relationship.
You’ll never fully trust her again. That’s for the rest of your life. For the rest of your life, you’ll have creeping doubts that she isn’t faithful. Every new guy friend, every time she’s texting and you can’t see the screen. Is that what you want for your life?
It may seem difficult now, and it probably will be for a while after you leave. But at some point, if you do leave, you’ll look back on this and be glad you did.
You've got more figured out at 19 years old than I had at 29! Kudos for understanding what you want and need out of a relationship and respectfully handling a bad fit relationship for your own sake. Again, wish I had learned that as young as you did, myself!
He said it was “a joke”. He thought he was funny
He said it was “a joke”. He thought he was funny
You gotta get outta there ASAP. That dude is a straight up loser and ain't worth your time or tears. You deserve someone who treats you like a queen, not like a doormat. If he's puttin' his hands on you, that's abuse and it's illegal, not to mention just plain wrong. That's not love, that's control. You don't gotta take that kind of crap from nobody, especially not from some punk who's supposed to be your man.
Look, I know it's scary, but you gotta be strong for yourself. Call up some friends or family who you trust and tell them what's goin' down. Get yourself a safe place to stay, whether that's a shelter or a friend's couch. And if he's makin' threats, don't hesitate to call the cops. They're there to help and protect you.
And don't worry about the lease, you can handle that. You're a strong, independent woman and you got this. Just make a plan and stick to it. You deserve to be happy and safe, and you can make that happen for yourself. Don't let this dude hold you back any longer. You got this!
You can stop now. If this whole story is real, it's not healthy.
that's the question to ask!
You leave him
Sounds like she’s suffering from depression/ mental illness if I were you I wouldn’t internalize it I would talk to her
His brother tried to cover for him with the allergy story. He knew what was going on. He could have shut down the circus if he was such a good guy but he didn’t. At least he tried to get your bf to go talk to you. Your bf didn’t want to ruin his high by going back upstairs.
Are you sure it was “Clorox” wipes?