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? We are Monika and Nicole ? New lesbian couple ? PVT open, 18 y.o.
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Date: October 18, 2022
Am I the only one here that thinks you should find a way to be supportive? I agree with everyone in the sense of do your research. Do the research and get legal advice for you and your husband both, or both of yall do some research together. Find a way to feel secure in his ideas, and then your own. Its not wrong to feel the way you do. Whether that's This feeling scared, anxious, etc. But you need to remember this isn't just your life, dreams, and goals. It's his too.
I met my current girlfriend through a friend of a friend. He's not someone she or I hang out with a lot, and generally we only meet up with him when we're getting together as a group and the friend he's friends with is also there.
I don't even like him that much, to be honest. Without the friend he's a friend of, I doubt I'd ever see him again.
He's STILL on the wedding list just for introducing us.
I came out after being married over a decade and you know what happened? Fuckin nothing.
I got it off my chest, most of my friends and family where like āUh yea did you just realise this? Itās always been kind of obvious.ā
I love my wife. Having the capacity to attracted to someone else isnāt exclusive to bisexual people. I donāt need to be with men and more than I need to be with other women.
Girl, this dude is breaking up with you. Iām sorry itās happening and Iām sorry heās doing it in such a cowardly way but schlepping his sexuality into it like some kind of excuse when in the most obvious truth there isnāt a single person in the world who is in a relationship without the capacity to be attracted to another person regardless of sexuality is just demeaning to your intelligence quite frankly.
Bi people deal with enough of this shitty energy, to try and use that prejudice to weasel out of a relationship is low class and very weak.
You seem like a sweet person. Honey you can do better.
GF needs to invest some time in understanding autism better.
Exactly this OP. If sheās not regularly reciprocating with equal enthusiasm then donāt lose your dignity by continuing to be nothing more than a source of compliments. You deserve the same amount of energy and effort as you put into a potential relationship and someone who is interested and compatible with you will match that energy.
Make him picture that he could literally be her father…! If this will not be enough, ask him to picture HIS daughter at her age, being intimate with an older guy, of his actual age…!
Need to reel yourself in OP before you get hurt from this relationship. Your reaction was way over board and to me that is a sign of codependency issues/clingy. If you let yourself go there itāll end badly for you, always have yourself in mind and donāt get lost in the feeling.
We broke up because I moved away. We were broken up for about 8 months and I hooked up with the girl I had a one night stand with a few months after the breakup. I decided to move back and that's when I got back together with my fiancee. She knew that I slept with someone else.
Does she have kids or roommates?
Dude fucking yuck on your bfās grooming. He should probably be in prison or at the very least on a list. But heās a father first and a groomer second. Time to move on.
I want to start by saying Iām sorry how difficult is situation. And I want to emphasize that you have been caring attempt to partner with chose to support you and that is invaluable. But it is still your body, your choice. He is allowed to be sad about what might have been. But it is ultimately up to you. And you do not want to be a mother at this time in your life. That is a valid decision. He has chosen to support that and I think thatās worthy of recognition and appreciation. he could have chosen to argue with you about your choice, but he didnāt. So if this choice is about you and your life, and what youāre ready to handle, then it is totally okay to get the abortion. Because you shouldnāt have the baby unless you are both certain. And most importantly, he never wanted his feelings to affect your decision. Otherwise, he wouldāve brought his concerns to you. But he chose to say okay and kiss you and support you.
I had an ex who told me the same thing. My weight fluctuated here and there during the relationship, but there was one point where I lost noticeable weight due to a horrible bout of gastro. After I regained the weight and then some, he mentioned how I was much more attractive during that period of weight loss (even though I was sick at that time!). I jokingly grabbed my belly and he was so repulsed by it. God forbid I ever had a baby with him, I can't imagine how he would take it. It fucks with you. As women we grow up in a world that instils in us that our value lies in our weight and appearance. When our partners reaffirm this belief system, it can lead us further down a path of unworthiness and undesirability. It's not worth the stress of worrying that he will not love you if you gain weight, and worse still, if you start to lose weight to appease him. You are worth so much more than just your weight and physical appearance. It's hot enough navigating body image through the media and throwaway comments from friends and family. You deserve to be with a life partner who sees your worth beyond your size.
Yes! A lot of commenters are way off base. She isnāt mentally ill. She just has an age play kink. It is pretty common.
OP, I think youāll just have to say that you donāt mind doing some other D/s with her if she likes that dynamic, but youāre not into ageplay. And she has to respect that.
Iām more wondering about another guy she finds funny that sheās comparing to you which explains why she cares about it unexpectedly.
His friends and his own mother think that sheās a good match for him because sheās a dominant woman and they look good together.
A) Do they tell you this directly? Or do they say this in front of you?
Or
B) Does your boyfriend tell you this, and you've never heard this from any other source?
If (A) then I would suggest you talk more with your boyfriend about what he should say when people bring this up. He needs to firmly reject these types of comments.
If (B) then consider the possibility that this just you BF saying this and he is interested in this woman. And possibly she is interested in him.
His friends even made him take several pictorial photos with her with her holding a bouquet of flowers because his friends made him. They think they are a āmatch made in heaven.ā
How did this all happen? Have you seen the photos? Why did your BF agree to that? He could have said “No, I won't do this, it's disrespectful to my GF”
He told me that heās not attracted to her at all and does not feel a hint of love towards her. I still feel hurt as everyone else keeps encouraging this despite them knowing heās taken.
Is he actively telling people that he's dating you? And the he doesn't appreciate this matchmaking?
Maybe half of marriages youāve been part of.
So just say you decided you didnāt want to go to the wedding because he was there, therefore rescinding your acceptance of Man of Honour. Alice would be crushed.
Bob may have known her longer, but if she liked him better, she would have asked him and not you.
This is basically a three month attempt at premature cohabitation that didn't work out because the entire relationship was sex centered and you and he are simply sexually incompatible. There's really no reason to try to force this or feel bad about ending it. You'll go through many such trial runs before in later life you find someone who truly fits you. Good luck
You're saying only if it leads somewhere?
i can believe it
i had a similar situation, i think it was natural impulse from past relationships
You don't do anything but I'm sure you're attracting attention, you can ask people you trust, they'll tell you that you're flirting.
It's a good idea to leave