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it’s the same if a straight person went to a bar with a bunch of other straight people of the opposite sex. it’s not a big deal if you trust them. if i were you id say i’m glad you had fun and was able to let loose. i trust you and i’m glad you made it home.
Lmao this is so true
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Exactly
You are in a feedback loop convincing yourself of a bad outcome. Step back for a second and think objectively both of the statistical likelihood of her getting pregnant from a single chance encounter at an unplanned time (extremely low), and of the damage to your friendship or relationship you might bring by preemptively launching into damage control that won't actually do any damage control. There is nothing to be done here except to learn that protection is something that will bring you peace of mind in the future.
I'd take her word on the IUD and be confident in it's virtually absolute efficacy.
If a woman I was dating said to me she might be out of my league let alone broke up with me for that reason I'd never even consider a relationship with them anymore. That's so damn disrespectful and to me them thinking like that shows they wouldn't deserve me. I know my worth and so should you. Sifting the blame just makes it worse. Either they are weak or they wanted to believe said coworkers. Either way I'd never trust them again.
She’s using references she thinks you know but don’t. Talk to her at a time when you aren’t in the middle of one of these situations. Tell her that sometimes she will reference things you don’t know. So then when it happens again, say “I don’t know that reference, can you explain it to me I’d like to understand.” Right now she just thinks you aren’t listening closely to what she’s saying.
My wife has so much to say sometimes that she forgets that it doesn’t fit into the current conversation. It took awhile but we laugh about it now and move on. Once, she gets the idea that you are actually listening, it should relieve some of the tension. Good luck
Are you in a monogamous relationship? Why is a “no kidding other people” rule having to be put in place? Shouldn't it just be assumed?
Can you go to your in laws, or in dinner other way leverage then to get you out of this?
You would want to know. Even if it destroyed your life youd want to know because living with pain is better than living in an illusion
If your hair style choice puts him in a bad mood then what is next? Baby you’re beautiful but I don’t like that top or pants or makeup or god those shoes put ME in a bad mood. You need to move on. If hair puts him in a bad mood he has too many issues or is just starting to break you in to his controlling behavior.
I scoured through the entire comment section less than a handful of comments are doubting the legitimacy of this “acquaintance of someone”. What makes them so trustworthy that every person here assumes that they're speaking the truth?
Are there any other people that can verify this story? Have there been any signs towards building up to abuse? It seems very silly to me to end a relationship purely on gossip. But I guess if OP is readily willing to believe this gossip then perhaps there were some small signs of abuse already in the air.
4 months isn't even long to be loyal to someone. The fact you expect a pat on the back (or are currently giving yourself one) is just sad.
you screwed yourself dude. You need to check the tenancy laws where you live, and you probably need to evict her. it’ll take months.
you need to just move out.
He's cheating and gaslighting the hell out of you. Break up with him.
This is affecting your child now as well, its not a safe place for you or your daughter at all and you should definitely return home. Your wife refusing to acknowledge the breadth and depth of the problem is a massive issue here and anyone would feel resentful if their traumatic experiences were brushed off with “oh it'll be fine, just give it more time”. Your wife is not doing right by you and your child here
Dude, run. She just changed her mind when she saw your reaction and she didn't like that. It's absolutely fucked up to threaten your partner with something like that.
You are not the asshole btw, but I suggest you overthink your relationship with this girl, if that is really that kind of relationship you want in your life
And for the future, if you are having an argument, don't drive, it's dangerous to be in the car while getting screamed at or screaming yourself…
I would rather skin meself than be parted from my babies. With you (and cat!) 100%. See how your boyfriend likes it if you ever stooped to his level and suggested he throw out his cat.
Pets are not disposable!
This is so hot. I mean, you wanted effective communication and that's exactly what you got. She didn't beat around the bush but it sounds like you would have preferred her to.
I just wonder if you're angry at yourself too for getting into a shape that you or her didn't want you to be in and you're transposing that anger onto her. Well, that and a thousand other things could be at play here.
No one ever wants to heat that but what else was she to do? And it broke her heart to say it too.
You fixed the issue now. I say it's time to put some proper energy into figuring out your feelings, acceptance then move on.
Your first comment, was “even if they were married this would apply” You mentioned marriage.
If you’ve confirmed 100% shes 19, break up with her, and she’ll probably start lying about more things in the relationship too. Trust me I can vouch as someone with a sister that always lied about her age in relationships, she would lie about texting other men. That trait carry’s on in their personality
Blocking each other and going no-contact is usually the best way to go.
You're well rid of him. Cope by realizing that and being glad you found out he's an asshole. Him being mad at your method of discovery is irrelevant.
For the love of christ please go to the police