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I don’t either really. Hopefully you guys can have a talk when he calms down and hopefully you can get to the bottom of what works for him. I was with someone for years who…well it started off as taking the occasional day and then it spiraled into being on long term disability and hospitalization. Maybe that would have happened even if she kept going to work but I don’t think her approach was the right one.
Girl no. Just no. You can’t marry this guy. He’s not interested in the relationship. He’s sure as heck not interested in you. You’re doing all the work because he absolutely does not want to marry you. Hand back the ring if he even got you one and tell him that you’re exhausted and walking away. You have nothing more to invest. He is a bad investment. You lost out on 15 years of your life chasing a man who never prioritised you. He treats you poorly because you let him. Therapy for yourself and being completely open and honest with your therapist about your anxious attachment to this man. You can’t save someone who doesn’t want to be saved. Save yourself and get out.
I wasn't planning on telling her my ssn I'm not stupid but she was also asking for a picture of my ID so I was unsure because she said she wanted me to identify myself to prove that I'm real
But if you do, you don’t have to pick up where you left off. You’re allowed to say that you have to start at the beginning again, and he has to win you over.
If that seems like too much trouble for him, and he feels entitled to have what he gave up, then he’s not the one, sis.
As he's cerebral – have him study interpersonal relationships and emotional intelligence resources. Its pretty normal for STEM people to miss out on this area but they can get very good at it too.
went home drunk with another person and they lay hot in bed together not doing anything until she kicked them out.
You believed this? Would you do this while drunk? I don't know anyone who would. Sounds to me like she has a history of both cheating and minimizing it to you.
I would say they have a very close friendship and that it by no means is a bad thing. I'd like to start by stating that OP's girlfriend's behavior is completely unacceptable. It reads as if she'd rather a life without the child's mother in it at all, which is totally understandable but still unrealistic.
Or perhaps she'd like the mother to be less involved, but I don't see how that would work. Literally not wanting to see the woman's face? Locking yourself in a room when the kid is on video call with his mother? Hiding something from a child that he considers precious to him? I'm not sure what her expectations were, exactly, but nothing OP has mentioned seems to warrant that kind of behavior unless he's purposely omitting some important bits.
Doesn't sound like there are suspicions of infidelity or an inappropriate feelings. It sounds like OP's gf hates how much this woman is involved with her every day life and maybe sometimes feels like an outsider looking in. But the mother's involvement isn't going to change as she's dating the father of this woman's child. Their lives would be forever intertwined should she marry him. She's gonna have to see her and hear her. Her step-son is gonna talk about her. It's his mom. So the feelings certainly need to be addressed, but she should understand that she can't close her eyes and wish this woman away.
Are you actually serious!?!? Asking permission to eat food with your partner? That's actually blown my mind, out of interest where are you from? Maybe this is a cultural thing not to share food freely with your partner
I don’t either really. Hopefully you guys can have a talk when he calms down and hopefully you can get to the bottom of what works for him. I was with someone for years who…well it started off as taking the occasional day and then it spiraled into being on long term disability and hospitalization. Maybe that would have happened even if she kept going to work but I don’t think her approach was the right one.
Yes, you should absolutely leave him for good. Block him and never look back.
Girl no. Just no. You can’t marry this guy. He’s not interested in the relationship. He’s sure as heck not interested in you. You’re doing all the work because he absolutely does not want to marry you. Hand back the ring if he even got you one and tell him that you’re exhausted and walking away. You have nothing more to invest. He is a bad investment. You lost out on 15 years of your life chasing a man who never prioritised you. He treats you poorly because you let him. Therapy for yourself and being completely open and honest with your therapist about your anxious attachment to this man. You can’t save someone who doesn’t want to be saved. Save yourself and get out.
I wasn't planning on telling her my ssn I'm not stupid but she was also asking for a picture of my ID so I was unsure because she said she wanted me to identify myself to prove that I'm real
You don’t have to take him back.
But if you do, you don’t have to pick up where you left off. You’re allowed to say that you have to start at the beginning again, and he has to win you over.
If that seems like too much trouble for him, and he feels entitled to have what he gave up, then he’s not the one, sis.
I'm assuming that when she said, let mom help you, it triggered some bad memories. Possibly write them a note telling them how appreciative you are.
Of course you know why she’s treating g you like this.
You should 100% make good on this threat. And don’t postpone it, cancel it. This woman is a red flag parade.
This whole thing is screaming “Lolita”
As he's cerebral – have him study interpersonal relationships and emotional intelligence resources. Its pretty normal for STEM people to miss out on this area but they can get very good at it too.
went home drunk with another person and they lay hot in bed together not doing anything until she kicked them out.
You believed this? Would you do this while drunk? I don't know anyone who would. Sounds to me like she has a history of both cheating and minimizing it to you.
I would say they have a very close friendship and that it by no means is a bad thing. I'd like to start by stating that OP's girlfriend's behavior is completely unacceptable. It reads as if she'd rather a life without the child's mother in it at all, which is totally understandable but still unrealistic.
Or perhaps she'd like the mother to be less involved, but I don't see how that would work. Literally not wanting to see the woman's face? Locking yourself in a room when the kid is on video call with his mother? Hiding something from a child that he considers precious to him? I'm not sure what her expectations were, exactly, but nothing OP has mentioned seems to warrant that kind of behavior unless he's purposely omitting some important bits.
Doesn't sound like there are suspicions of infidelity or an inappropriate feelings. It sounds like OP's gf hates how much this woman is involved with her every day life and maybe sometimes feels like an outsider looking in. But the mother's involvement isn't going to change as she's dating the father of this woman's child. Their lives would be forever intertwined should she marry him. She's gonna have to see her and hear her. Her step-son is gonna talk about her. It's his mom. So the feelings certainly need to be addressed, but she should understand that she can't close her eyes and wish this woman away.
Are you actually serious!?!? Asking permission to eat food with your partner? That's actually blown my mind, out of interest where are you from? Maybe this is a cultural thing not to share food freely with your partner