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You can't change the age gap and you don't have any influence on external stressors.
If you're being genuine, kind, and engaged then you've done your part. If that isn't good enough for her she can kick rocks. As long as you've been true to yourself while being a good boyfriend to her, you'be done your part.
If you're so impaired that you can't remember what happened, you were too impaired to fully consent. We're talking black out drunk.
You may not agree on that, but I hope you would at least agree that sleeping with someone that out of it is morally dodgy AF
See if she can try another antidepressant. There are many differences between the different types and brands. But generally, it takes time to adjust and therapy should always be part of the way. All the best for you two.
Hugs, thank you so much, I really appreciate the kind words, I’ve had some horrible people in my dm’s from this post, so I really appreciate the support.
I don’t care abt him and his wife being friends or even having sex if they are, I care that he has repeatedly said he doesn’t spend any time with her when I’ve asked (presuming if they’re friends they have a similar relationship situation to the one he and I have) and has been having sex with me under the premise he isn’t doing so with anyone else…
He dropped us off earlier today to go and pick up his other kids for the weekend and then stayed at the ex wife’s house for 2+ hours when he lives a ten min car journey away from her – just seems odd (I am friends with my first borns dad, but I wouldn’t want to hold a conversation with him for longer than a few minutes let alone chill at his house for 2 hours hence needing some alternate perspectives on this). My feeling is that he will gaslight me into believing his version of events even if it’s all lies hence not knowing what to do right now…
I don’t intend to have sex with him again regardless because there’s obviously no trust haha.
Thanks for your input!
Its probably not a porn addiction, he just sucks at hiding the evidence on his phone. Don't believe a guy that says he's going to stop. A horney 20yo that already uses porn will have a strong natural compulsion to keep using especially since it is easily available, can be accessed instantly and in theory, can be viewed privately which means it shouldnt be harming anyone because they can't dislike what they don't know about. Unfortunately he's not hiding it and you've been finding it easily enough and in ways that probably hadnt really occurred to him.
So as much as I'd love to be the bearer of good news, its probably not going to change. I'm sure he does love you though.
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I dont think thats necessarily the case at all. OP says that she waited until a few months ago (so like 9 months) tell her parents and is upset that he hasnt told them about her in 12 months. Its the same reasoning one is just a bit more cautious.
Has he ever told them about a dating partner he had? He may just be overly neurotic. I once dated someone and we had similar issues – though in my case we had only dated 6 months and she was upset I didnt tell my parents about her.
I think you may have to be a bit patient. Bring it up when its natural. Its not your fault for “breaking up a family” or anthing like that.
Just keep working on yourself. Being the best version of yourself will make you the best partner you can be.
You are young and have so much time!
My first girlfriend and I met when we were like 12, dated briefly in highschool, had sex, etc. I've known her for 20 years and we still hang out pretty regularly to this day.
Somehow, magically, my wife and her boyfriend trust us not to cheat with each other. It's almost like we built a foundation of trust early on and have been good partners!
Goddamn you must be lonely.
Maybe impossible but the best would be if you just play it cool and drop it. You know, the ‘nevermind, it was a stupid idea anyway, have fun with anyone you want’
Move on, dont start a conversation about it, dont try to understand, you dont need to do anything with that girl.
She did this after you shared a moment, imagine what would happen/how would you feel if she would fuck a random guy after you dating for 6 months. She likes to do that, fine, dont break your hearth about a girl who is willing to do that to you.
Your BF concerns are valid even if his approach may not be the best. One thing many people abuse is this word called 'trust'. And by that I mean many believe that just because they have expressed that they can be trusted that it gives them the liberty to expose themselves to situations that increase the likelyhood of a monogamous relationship ending in failure.
With that said, your BF needs to decide for himself what's more important to him, being in a relationship where both parties share the same values and beliefs, or taking the gamble with his feelings and emotional stress that things will work out with you.
If it were me, I would simply have the conversation with you to see where your head is at. If the club is more important to you then so be it, I just simply would end the relationship and pursue another one with a like minded individual. No hurt feelings he gets what ye wants and you get what you want. Learn this and learn it now OP, when you're in a monogamous relationship, sacrifice is always going to occur somewhere.
Kinda messed up. I honestly don’t think she meant for it to hurt you though. I don’t think she thought it would bother you this much either. Besides, most intelligent adults realize as we get older that that guy/girl we had a huge crush on back in HS or College probably wasn’t right for us anyway. I, having reconnected with a few old crushes (innocently via social media), definitely realized this after talking with them for a bit or seeing their lifestyle. Hell, my high school dream girl crush turned out to be crazy af and a completely changed person! That was a bullet dodged for sure!
Wow, this really helped me put things into perspective. Thank you so much! All I’ve been thinking about is losing him, I don’t even think I can even comprehend the concept of someone else’s child coming into the mix too. It is a shame because everything else was running so smoothly, but the more I think about it the more I realise how massive this is.
It's pretty amazing how many people will claim to be in a “toxic” relationship they for some mysterious reason can't just end when they're trying to chat up a new conquest. Sincere people end one relationship before starting another.
Bob isn't coming since he realized he can't violate Harry's boundaries any more. There is purpose for him. Good riddance. Anyone who empathizes with Bob is a culprit too