Most Common wealth countries have “reasonable force” as in equal force and escalates depending on threat level.
If someone is unarmed, you cannot just blast them.
If someone has a knife and you have a bat or longer ranged melee weapon, that would be equal force, hell if they have a knife and you have a gun, depending on the threat, that would be reasonable force.
The issue is threat level, if they were backing up with the knife pointed at you, you cannot just blast them.
If they are approaching y ou and you try to warn them that they have a gun, that's appropriate force.
It's very nuanced hence why courts and judges take each case by case to figureout what's going on.
Even in Canada, it's rare to be convicted of murder if you shoot an intruder, but you have to go through due process to verify that you shooting them was justified. This can cause issues with lawyer fee's etc etc. It's to prevent “They were home invaders” when they were infact invited over and it was an ambush.
Maybe stop pressing her. Being raped is a kind of violation you can’t understand unless you’ve been through it as well. Being raped and forced to have a child because of it is a whole other level of pain.
If she doesn’t want her daughter to know that her daughter is a product of violence, then that’s her choice. Let her figure out what she wants to tell you, that said, if I knew my husband posted all the horrible things that have happened to me on Reddit I would seriously rethink everything.
Honestly I’m really not sure why you’ve even posted this. You do know there is a way to trace where you posted from? You just blabbed a major incidence, and don’t seem to understand the possible consequences.
Why would you approach her with this? Do you think people can just…stop farting? It doesn’t work that way. Live with it. Or don’t and move out. There’s nothing to be done here
You will “make her understand” and “she can't leave”. You sound toxic af!! I hope she leaves you. You're far too immature to be in a serious relationship.
Thank you for the resources!! I had no idea where to start looking and neither did he other than google therapists close by. AFAIK and from what I saw this started 10 days ago and it wasn’t every day/multiple times a day. I would’ve never thought he had a PA especially since our sex life has never been impacted even recently without being TMI. When we’re both home tonight I’ll bring up the website and program, he said he’s willing to talk to a professional and he’s never talked to anyone about it bc he’s embarrassed and can’t talk to his friends about it bc he thinks they’ll make fun of him
Well I think that I'm not gonna move in with him yet, take a break and see what gonna happen . Thank you for ur input appreciate it 🙂
OP, get some Plan B right away…
He treated you like a child that needs to be policed instead of an equal partner. If one has issues with your partner you talk to them.
I'd consider a break-up as well. This is not how you treat your equal.
Sometimes I wish I go back in time and not commit to begin with. I swear if I get out, I am not falling in love ever again.
What is she proposing you do?
INFO: has she ever dated or been with a woman? Has she ever slept with a man?
Most Common wealth countries have “reasonable force” as in equal force and escalates depending on threat level.
If someone is unarmed, you cannot just blast them.
If someone has a knife and you have a bat or longer ranged melee weapon, that would be equal force, hell if they have a knife and you have a gun, depending on the threat, that would be reasonable force.
The issue is threat level, if they were backing up with the knife pointed at you, you cannot just blast them.
If they are approaching y ou and you try to warn them that they have a gun, that's appropriate force.
It's very nuanced hence why courts and judges take each case by case to figureout what's going on.
Even in Canada, it's rare to be convicted of murder if you shoot an intruder, but you have to go through due process to verify that you shooting them was justified. This can cause issues with lawyer fee's etc etc. It's to prevent “They were home invaders” when they were infact invited over and it was an ambush.
Maybe stop pressing her. Being raped is a kind of violation you can’t understand unless you’ve been through it as well. Being raped and forced to have a child because of it is a whole other level of pain.
If she doesn’t want her daughter to know that her daughter is a product of violence, then that’s her choice. Let her figure out what she wants to tell you, that said, if I knew my husband posted all the horrible things that have happened to me on Reddit I would seriously rethink everything.
Honestly I’m really not sure why you’ve even posted this. You do know there is a way to trace where you posted from? You just blabbed a major incidence, and don’t seem to understand the possible consequences.
Yes.
Why would you approach her with this? Do you think people can just…stop farting? It doesn’t work that way. Live with it. Or don’t and move out. There’s nothing to be done here
You will “make her understand” and “she can't leave”. You sound toxic af!! I hope she leaves you. You're far too immature to be in a serious relationship.
OP, was your wife sexually abused by a teacher or coach? Because it sure seems like that would line up with some of this.
Thank you for the resources!! I had no idea where to start looking and neither did he other than google therapists close by. AFAIK and from what I saw this started 10 days ago and it wasn’t every day/multiple times a day. I would’ve never thought he had a PA especially since our sex life has never been impacted even recently without being TMI. When we’re both home tonight I’ll bring up the website and program, he said he’s willing to talk to a professional and he’s never talked to anyone about it bc he’s embarrassed and can’t talk to his friends about it bc he thinks they’ll make fun of him