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Date: November 3, 2022
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Wow it's very hot to believe this is real. You will probably be struggling to control his drinking for a very long time. Alcoholism is a family disease and you are already showing major symptoms
I’m a rape victim, a survivor of what I assume you consider to be “real” rape. This circumstance fits under the definition of coercion.
Unfortunately you can't force him to understand and agree.
Best advice I can give is to do what you've ready done and talk to him about it. Maybe if it wasn't a serious conversation, express how much it bothers and means to you. If he doesn't respect that boundary…. Then it falls on you to decide how to proceed.
I really, really hope he comes around to your point of view for your sake, seriously.
Facts this is actually the part of crazy town that no one is mentioning lol
Boy bye
Your kids need you to keep doing better. Accept you’ve damaged relationships but don’t skulk away. Be there in ways that are quietly additive in their lives. Don’t make their trauma and recovery from your harm about you and your your recovery and regrets. Sure, genuinely express remorse and state that you want to make amends and be what they need now. But don’t keep saying that. Do things like see what they need and provide it. Education, opportunities, driving places, show up for games or performances. Fix the dishwasher. Learn the game your kid likes to play. Remember what you did together for fun and invite for that. Be present, quietly as much as you can without being intrusive. Be the reliable co parent. Keep a journal of loving observations about your kids that they can have if they want much later when they may be ready to have relationships with you. With your wife be humble and let her be whatever she is, feel whatever she does, angry and sad whatever. Some things cannot be repaired but see what she needs from you and try to be a supportive person in her life in ways she can accept. And that may be giving her space. Get your needs for affirmation etc met somewhere else, like your therapist, sponsor, pastor, family but not try to get from her.
So here's what you do – you do to the docs, you say “I've been randomly getting angry for basically no reason and it worries me” then they'll most likely prescribe you anti-depressants (which are used to treat a wide variety of disorders FYI) which you then consistently take. If you don't results within 3 months you go back and repeat the process, or you leave your wife and be done with it.
She cheated on me with a guy that goes to church with her. I go to another church and asked her to stop going where he goes and come with me because it's very hurtful that she'd rather be there where he's at and not be with me.
Honestly feel like you overreacted a little bit, a drunk person saying you’re not drinking enough happens all the time and isn’t a big deal. You shouldn’t take it so personally.
You can deny all you want, your gf and all of us reading are clearly not blind. Even without you admitting it your gf can see you’re attracted to her and that’s why she has a problem.
And the only person talking here like a rapist is yourself. People see attractive people everywhere all the time, we don’t feel the need to ‘handle’ anything. We acknowledge that and move on with our lives. And we certainly don’t try to get into a roommate situation with them.
And idk what advice you’re looking for. There’s no convincing your gf, because she’s right. Also I am looking at your ages and frankly she’s a smart woman to draw the line with your bs about living with this friend. Nobody needs this drama at this age
You say he doesn't make much money. If you're staying at his more than yours – have you offered to help pay for utilities to contribute to keeping his place at a comfort level for yourself? It seems like you want his place to be a safe space for yourself as much as it is for him considering the amount of time you spend there. That takes contribution on your part as well.
Now if he's unwilling to compromise after you offer contribution to the situation – then that will potentially be something to worry about in terms of how he sees you within the place he lives.
Why is this the first comment I've seen that suggested therapy
She got hot in front of your friend without telling you. That crosses a pretty reasonable boundary in 99% of relationships.
If you don’t want her to feel bad, what are you trying to achieve? Like what’s your goal for a resolution?
Leave him
you either stay with her or you don’t. if you’re going to stay, you need to talk it out and go to counseling.
If this is a classic case of gaslighting my friend. I'm gonna say leave that piece of shit human and find yourself a decent girl that's not a ho
So he doesn’t like how you fold his laundry, but still expects you to do it?
You also do the cooking and cleaning and other chores?
He doesn’t feel “respected”
Him Expressing his feelings escalates to arguments where he “rages” and you are walking on eggshells.
He “rages” at all with any regularity.
These are not healthy things, and combined pint a picture of a rather unhealthy relationship.