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✿Julie Miller✿ —-, >follow me on my instagram and twitter —>, 21 y.o.
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Date: November 1, 2022
Dont talk about these matters by text please. Do it in person 😉 but it seems its turning out fine
You have to cut ties with your best friend. If she isn't your end game then you have to let her go. If you feel like she might be then you aren't being a very good friend since you aren't respecting her own relationship.
Well you two broke up. Give it time and also reflect on your relationship and yourself. Respect her and don't contact her until she's ready
Because tbh mate if it's not her niece telling her not to talk to you that caused this. Be honest to yourself
Emotional blackmail. It's a red flag of red flags. It's not your problem if she does it. That's on her. How else are you supposed to be happy? Be stuck with her or she kills herself? Messed up. If she does go through with it, take the time you need, you're not at fault when it comes down to it.
Best of luck. Don't be with her.
for some reason I want to give her the benefit of the doubt and accept that it was a mistake
And yet you said in another comment that it wasn't a mistake because for you, a 'mistake' would be a one-time, spur-of-the-moment lapse of judgement but what she did – signing up for dating sites, sexting multiple people repeatedly, etc while lying to you and hiding her behavior – is a long series of deliberate, thought-out-and-acted-upon conscious decisions. So, not a 'mistake'.
I think you need to characterize it as a 'mistake' so you can justify staying with someone who made multiple, planned, thought-out decisions to shit all over you.
There’s a couple things here; first, I don’t think it’s unreasonable for you to just ask. It’s honestly not that big of a deal. If anything, it might have been hot for them in the moment, but that’s that.
Could they have told you? Sure. But what “answers” are you looking for? Things like this sometimes happen with pregnancies like that. But to you, what difference does it make? So what if you had some sort of twin obsession. What would them telling you have changed? I doubt they were “protecting” you, because there was nothing to protect you from.
I’m also not sure why you losing a pregnancy would impact their disclosure. To back up, let me first say I’m so so sorry about what you’ve dealt with. I know it’s awful. Anecdotally, I’m a guy and happily married. My wife and I luckily have an amazing toddler, but she’s has two miscarriages in as many months, so I promise you I’m in no way minimizing that at all.
Having said all that, if you want to discuss it, then I’d start by talking to your uncle about how you feel. I doubt he’d be all that worried about serious blowback (because there really shouldn’t be any). But better to tell him what you want to do so he’s not blindsided.
After that, just be direct. “I heard that I was a twin and I absorbed them in the womb. Why didn’t you ever tell me?” But again, I don’t really understand what you hope to gain from this. Good luck.
GET OUT no Matter what this guy is toxic . ask a co-worker , a boss or anyone remotely close to you that you can see for help
This is a red flag. If it’s not a method to trap you, I would worry it’s something like borderline personality disorder.