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It is human and normal to develop crushes on someone while in a relationship. What is inappropriate is acting on those feelings as it is disrespectful to your partner and your relationship. It sounds like you had an emotional affair and consequently emotionally cheated on your current partner if you’re questioning if S is the one.
Your partner deserves someone who is loyal and honest. I think she deserves to know what you’ve done behind her back. If you’re truly in love with S, save your current partner the heartbreak and just break up with her without telling her about your emotional affair – I’ve been cheated on, and I wish I didn’t know. It tortured me to think I wasn’t good enough for my partner who cheated and I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.
For once I want the Yakuza assassin to use a throwaway because he’s shy.
He might just be balking because a vasectomy is so permanent. It’s hard to shut that door forever even if you’ve made the decision. Maybe he just needs a little time to get used to the idea.
It could be he's nervous, anxious and wanting to do really well with you and this, of course, gives him performance anxiety. If so, be really patient with him and no negative comments, Op. After a few (3-5) times it should all clear up, I think.
Then again, he may have had this issue all along. THAT is a different issue.
I suppose hubby is the only son ? the one who can transmit the name to the next generations ?
OF COURSE IT IS …. that's it enough reddit for me.
No way her employer is putting two employees of different genders in the same room. There is literally no way. That is not a thing.
Lol
Smoking is my hot line. If it's a turn-off for you, it's a turn-off. It sounds like that was your ick moment. And it's hard to recover from that. Having a personal boundary isn't wrong.
My girlfriend has BPD.
Turbulent, my exW has that problem. If your GF has been professionally diagnosed as having BPD (borderline personality disorder), you likely would be seeing the following 4 behaviors.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.
Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).
Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.
Turbulent, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
he thing is, I don't want to wait. If she's ended it, I need to move on.
I 100% agree with you, I think it's pretty normal to get FOMO about the single life or meeting other partners, but not everyone acts on it. Your gf acted on it and there's no way to change her mind, nor at this point should you even try.
You should never stick around hoping she comes back, I also have a policy of never taking someone back who's dumped you. Take this opportunity to focus on yourself for a while and build yourself up as a man. If she does come crawling back after a while (which they often do) you should be in a place where you don't even want her anymore.
Man spiteful so I would end the relationship. I refuse to be anyone’s second choice ESPECIALLY as a rebound because she got rejected, fuck her and fuck that. But if you’re happy and love her and she loves you. If you don’t think she’ll cheat or break your heart then fuck it.
OP, you need to have yourself checked out by a doctor. It sounds like you might have been sexually assaulted. I say “might” because I don't know very much about your symptoms from your post. A doctor's visit would include blood tests and an examination to determine if you are still a virgin, and if there are abrasions in your genital area. I know this is very personal and I don't expect you to respond, but please go see a doctor. If what you suspect is true, you must file a police report, not only to protect yourself but also other women this guy may be victimizing. Please do not see him again until you have answers.
Tbh. Most single guys would love it if a girl asked them out.
While I wouldn’t call you an asshole, I do think you’re being careless and cruel to your girlfriend.