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Date: October 3, 2022
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Maybe you can just be very real and honest how you are being on here. I really hope he wasn't cheating so that it doesn't fully fuck up their marriage and maybe you three can work out some kind of agreement for him to be involved with his kid if he chooses to.
But honestly, if you just tell him as you are telling us…that you put it off so long to avoid ruining his marriage but as time goes on you feel he needs to know, etc. then hopefully he can understand why you waited so long.
lol, well you keep doing the lords work, separating morons from their money..to end this story out…and it does get worse…these idiots spent all of their money (and most of mine) that night…so we've got to get train tickets back to the base. The German rail system is awesome, and essentially automated at night. You buy a paper ticket from a machine and carry it on you, semi honor system, so if a conductor comes on and asks to see your ticket, you show it to them, if you have no ticket its a big fine and they usually just called the Polesie on military dudes. SO we get to the ticket machine and i'm the only one with cash to buy a ticket, so fuck these guys, I get my ticket, so we're on the train riding back to base and one of the dudes (the highest ranking guys actually) asks to look at my ticket…so I hand him my ticket and this A-hole quickly puts it in his mouth and EATS IT…FUCK…and then says “well, we're all in the same boat now”…thank god we didnt get checked…My god…my choice of friends sure was bad back then…lol you be safe out there now, lol
Was the lying coworker one of the people he had sex with?
The reason he isn't acting supportive of your traumas is because he is not interested in you. He's interested in having a young, hard piece of ass.
Your parents sound strict, I'm willing to bet it's because they're scared you'll go back down a bad path. Parents don't always know how to deal with things properly, unfortunately. However, my guess is they were never okay with the age gap bartender and were trying to seem cool til they waited on it fizzing out. The drinking slip freaked them out.
Ride it out at home, focus on school and your own wellbeing.
Just FYI – in 1999 when I was 19 I got my very first apartment for $328 a month and making around $720 a month GROSS. So pretty much half my income was going to rent and that trend has pretty much continued my whole life and I am now 43. So shit wasn’t as “easy” as everyone your age seems to think.
Hope you get to go on your trip! I have been to Chicago for work multiple times. It reminds me a lot of my current city, Toronto.
but i believe things will change if I change.
Why do you need to change? Why isn't any of this on him?
dude I cant see the comments
He is not treating you with respect, do you want to continue with that?
The friend zone is a place you put yourself when you can't grow the fuck up and move on.
If you do you have to stick with it.
What can I do at this point? What isn’t enabling? What can I say? I grew up with alcoholics I only know how to tiptoe around them. I’m not a sponsor and I quit drinking myself at 18 pretty easily because I developed health anxiety. He is not as easy to scare.
Thank you for this.
You're right. And hyperfixating here isn't the answer, although easier said than done..
yep, this is gonna be awhile. Get used to your new normal for the next few years.
Idk why people here are downplaying the obviously deluded and unreasonable girlfriend. Doesn't even matter if you play more than those 3 hours a week you said either. I know plenty of gamers that make a living off streaming playing over 4 to 6 hours a day and some that even play and stream with their spouse with a similar set up…
Yet these folks here are claiming that she has to feel rejected and hurt and whatnot by your playing and somehow they're making excuses for this delusion? I'm sorry dude but only a mentally unstable person can truly believe that and the fact that there are people (most likely other women) making it seem like she's the victim here is ridiculous.
For me, this is a HUGE red flag ? I've seen quite a bit of cases of men who enjoy playing video games every now and then have martial and relationship issues. Most of these cases with men in relationships aren't even that severe with “gaming addiction” more than most are simply guys trying to wind down for a bit with the boys in a couple rounds of Warzone every weekend and their wives or girlfriends absolutely can't stand them doing said activity even for short periods of time a week. On the contrary I've seen MUCH happier couples that game together or have their own hobbies that they keep to without nagging their partner. In fact I'd say those couples I've spoken to have better relationships than most. Some have been a partner that plays and the other just watching and even those have a significantly higher outlook on their relationship than what your case might be. While there ARE some people out there (men AND women) with addictive tendencies and possibly a so called “gaming addiction” it's much more prevalent in younger individuals than people your ages and usually these cases (from what I've studied) resolve themselves as the individuals progress in age and maturity. There's also this fallous belief that only certain de facto addictive stimulants are only addictive like drugs or alcohol. You could literally be addicted to ANYTHING. Enough progressive dopamine hits and you're hooked. I'm talking anything from Porn to Candy Crush to yes even marijuana and sex and some otherwise normally healthy behaviors even so much as reading… Did you know people back then would complain how the younger generation in the mid to late 1800s were addicted to reading books??? This fallacy that video games are addicting is ridiculous when almost everyone has an addiction to something and addictive tendencies. Your grandma could be at the casino spending butt loads of dollars there and still come home to lecture you on how video games are so addicting.
Honestly sir this isn't healthy behavior on your partners part and if she is serious I'd argue it's neurotic and delusional. I'm not going to tell you or recommend what to do but I'm guessing this isn't the only issue you've been having with her as this sounds way too unreasonable to be a one off situation in your relationship. Seriously, you could be out clubbing and drinking with your buddies getting hooked on drugs and talking to fine girls but God forbid you play Super Mario Bros lol