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The children are already in a bad home. You think their mom is going around giving HIV to innocent people but then is a stand up person in all other aspects of life?
I’m sorry this is happening man but she isn’t your girlfriend anymore she’s some guys wife. And you mean to say after 10 years of not hearing or seeing her you just kept on assuming you’d get out and everything would be the same? Again I’m terribly sorry for this unfortunate circumstance. Especially because you were imprisoned for something you didn’t even do. I mean I really hope the prison is compensating you in some way even though nothing they could do would ever give you back the 12 years of your life that you’ll never get back. Also you’ve have about 10 years to mourn the relationship as well so at least it’s not like a fresh break up. I mean I’m sure you didn’t assume you guys were still dating while you weren’t hearing from her at all. But I truly hope things start coming back together in your life and I’m sure you’ll meet someone soon who will make you happy. Don’t give up on life just it’s safe to assume you should definitely give up on your ex. She has had an entire decade I’m assuming to build a life with this man and you just have to let her go. It’s going to be painful, but you have to start looking for the good things you have in your life. The buddy who’s letting you stay with him is a start. He’s a good friend for that. Im positive there are more good things going on for you. Maybe start putting your time into some hobbies. Rediscover who you are and start spending lost time figuring out what you like to do in your now free life. There are so many things you can now do that have been held back from you for so long and I’m excited for you to experience those things again. Go and get all of those foods you missed for all this time, go places to meet new people, or pick up an instrument or working out or hiking. There are so many things that could help you dull the pain this has brought into you. But I’m very sorry.
Thank you for this. We ended up talking about it and I feel a lot better about things going forward, but it's definitely going to be a work in progress.
I think this is an example of “when someone tells you who they are, believe them.”
She said that she wants to be taken care of etc.
This seems to be who she is, and I would have a hot time not believing her. She didn't say she wanted someone who would help her out, or who she could be taken care of and also care for but who wouldn't be an additional burden on her. (I mean, to be fair that last one would be a mouthful.) She said she wants to be taken care of, probably because she is tired of taking care of everyone else. This would be awesome, if she found someone who actually wants to do that, and there are people like that. You aren't one. This is unequal expectations in a relationship, and it probably is not going to work out for you. If you can't come to a reasonable compromise, then it is time to move on.
When you're mature enough to recognize that “choices” are about your priorities in the moment. When starting a new relationship (especially when that young) you may (at least subconsciously) be “keeping your options open” and make a “poor choice” that you now recognize as a “mistake” due to your priorities changing thru experience.
If you can't be mature enough to give some grace to others… Then don't expect any for yourself.
It was within the first 2 months of a 6 year (or LIFELONG) relationship… If you can't put things into perspective… Then you either have issues you need to work thru, or are too young to understand.
You need to break up with ABC. It sounds like she assaulted you, or faked being pregnant, or both.
Tell your friend. If he understands, he’s a true friend. If he doesn’t, then you were bound to lose him over this anyway.
The ex is gone.
You need to make some better life choice and think your decisions through and talk to the people in your life before you make giant life altering decisions.
Im glad you came to this sub for advice and I hope you follow some of it. This is a really messed up situation.
This could be about control rather than love and sex. If it has reduced drastically since your child he may feel he's the one being pushed out. Probably rightly but this doesn't make his behaviour any more forgivable. Speak to a therapist then get him to if you can.
Have you tried counseling for both you and your husband? It might take some time but seeing someone at their lowest might warrant the need for some help. Separation alone just gives them more free time to not focus on the family.
If your boyfriend wasn’t in the picture, if it was a different guy or he left you, would you have this baby?
If you do not 100% want it, to carry it for 9 months, to take care of it for 18 years (longer because the average age children are leaving home in the Western world is now like 28 and will probably get higher) – don’t have it.
You won’t be able to give it back, you won’t be able to walk out on it in good conscience, you will be stuck with this current boyfriend being in your life in some shape or form for the rest of your life.
If you have any reservations, if you have your immediate gut feeling being get an abortion, do not bring a human into this world. You will resent it.
The children are already in a bad home. You think their mom is going around giving HIV to innocent people but then is a stand up person in all other aspects of life?
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Consent doesn’t automatically protect you. Terrible things still happen even when you say “no”. Remember that.
Why didnr you go with her..?
I’m sorry this is happening man but she isn’t your girlfriend anymore she’s some guys wife. And you mean to say after 10 years of not hearing or seeing her you just kept on assuming you’d get out and everything would be the same? Again I’m terribly sorry for this unfortunate circumstance. Especially because you were imprisoned for something you didn’t even do. I mean I really hope the prison is compensating you in some way even though nothing they could do would ever give you back the 12 years of your life that you’ll never get back. Also you’ve have about 10 years to mourn the relationship as well so at least it’s not like a fresh break up. I mean I’m sure you didn’t assume you guys were still dating while you weren’t hearing from her at all. But I truly hope things start coming back together in your life and I’m sure you’ll meet someone soon who will make you happy. Don’t give up on life just it’s safe to assume you should definitely give up on your ex. She has had an entire decade I’m assuming to build a life with this man and you just have to let her go. It’s going to be painful, but you have to start looking for the good things you have in your life. The buddy who’s letting you stay with him is a start. He’s a good friend for that. Im positive there are more good things going on for you. Maybe start putting your time into some hobbies. Rediscover who you are and start spending lost time figuring out what you like to do in your now free life. There are so many things you can now do that have been held back from you for so long and I’m excited for you to experience those things again. Go and get all of those foods you missed for all this time, go places to meet new people, or pick up an instrument or working out or hiking. There are so many things that could help you dull the pain this has brought into you. But I’m very sorry.
Thank you for this. We ended up talking about it and I feel a lot better about things going forward, but it's definitely going to be a work in progress.
I think this is an example of “when someone tells you who they are, believe them.”
She said that she wants to be taken care of etc.
This seems to be who she is, and I would have a hot time not believing her. She didn't say she wanted someone who would help her out, or who she could be taken care of and also care for but who wouldn't be an additional burden on her. (I mean, to be fair that last one would be a mouthful.) She said she wants to be taken care of, probably because she is tired of taking care of everyone else. This would be awesome, if she found someone who actually wants to do that, and there are people like that. You aren't one. This is unequal expectations in a relationship, and it probably is not going to work out for you. If you can't come to a reasonable compromise, then it is time to move on.
Many women hit a wall in their dating and sexual life, approaching 30. Even more so if you follow “leftist” ideologys or modern feminism.
Straight men generally prefer younger women for multiple reasons, straight men also prefer less dominant/assertive women more often than not.
He’s sharing the views of another broken person.
He just said he would cheat. Timeframe irrelevant. No honour.
A secure person that wants an open relationship, designs it that way and chooses a partner that agrees.
Cheating is breaking a relationship agreement.
Get out of this relationship.
When you're mature enough to recognize that “choices” are about your priorities in the moment. When starting a new relationship (especially when that young) you may (at least subconsciously) be “keeping your options open” and make a “poor choice” that you now recognize as a “mistake” due to your priorities changing thru experience.
If you can't be mature enough to give some grace to others… Then don't expect any for yourself.
It was within the first 2 months of a 6 year (or LIFELONG) relationship… If you can't put things into perspective… Then you either have issues you need to work thru, or are too young to understand.
+Post addition: My cousin doesnt want to come back his home. He wants to live foreign country. But his wife doesn't want to live! foreign country.
She likes my character as a man
Just leave, they’ve been toeing the line for a while now and it won’t be long before they actually do sleep with each other
The pastor said “those accusations have to end now!”
There's your fucking problem.
Pastors are literally the perpetrators of this kind of shit compulsively. Why would they back you up, you're a woman.
Well id suggest the best thing to do is look at this as a massive bullet dodged she sounds crazy
You need to break up with ABC. It sounds like she assaulted you, or faked being pregnant, or both.
Tell your friend. If he understands, he’s a true friend. If he doesn’t, then you were bound to lose him over this anyway.
The ex is gone.
You need to make some better life choice and think your decisions through and talk to the people in your life before you make giant life altering decisions.
Im glad you came to this sub for advice and I hope you follow some of it. This is a really messed up situation.
He’s playing both of you. Otherwise, he would have told her something along the lines of: “sorry, I’m not interested. I’ve found someone else.”
If she is going to ignore you here she will do so many times in the future as well.
Great point.
This could be about control rather than love and sex. If it has reduced drastically since your child he may feel he's the one being pushed out. Probably rightly but this doesn't make his behaviour any more forgivable. Speak to a therapist then get him to if you can.
It’s so crazy he broke the phone. I’d guess cheating too.
Have you tried counseling for both you and your husband? It might take some time but seeing someone at their lowest might warrant the need for some help. Separation alone just gives them more free time to not focus on the family.
I would very much like to see the girlfriend's POV in this.
He gave you a good explanation, you just didn’t agree with it. He doesn’t need to explain himself when it seems like you won’t understand.
None of this is any of your business.
If your boyfriend wasn’t in the picture, if it was a different guy or he left you, would you have this baby?
If you do not 100% want it, to carry it for 9 months, to take care of it for 18 years (longer because the average age children are leaving home in the Western world is now like 28 and will probably get higher) – don’t have it.
You won’t be able to give it back, you won’t be able to walk out on it in good conscience, you will be stuck with this current boyfriend being in your life in some shape or form for the rest of your life.
If you have any reservations, if you have your immediate gut feeling being get an abortion, do not bring a human into this world. You will resent it.
You’re both in danger. This behavior is unhinged. Breaking into her home?
There’s a screw that’s gone missing and he’s moved from infatuation to abusive, lying stalker.
Get a PI to help gather evidence quickly or contact some abuse hotlines for advice etc. because it’s just not safe for you or Ava.