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Date: January 11, 2023
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i had a foursome and it went kinda meh
Leave as soon as you can. I stayed with an ex who yelled at me like that for 2 years. You'll become a shell of yourself if you stay.
The only relationship that is important to you at this time is the one with the child growing inside you. The universe handed you the win of all wins. It showed you the true colors of the people in your life so that you can close that door so that the window that was just open can bring in fresh air.
It amazes me how many people think if they wear you down enough you'll give in and change all your values. I am 95% certain I will never marry and 100% certain I don't want to change my last name. Maybe I would agree to a double barrel if they did the same. I'll lay this out clearly early on and would be mega pissed off if they ignored me thinking they're the magical person to change my mind.
Yes, I get that now. Thank you for your advice
You're not married so it makes sense to not put you on the deed. It's his house, that he's buying, with his money. If he was contributing to your rent and bills while living there, it makes sense that when the tables turn and you live in his place, that you'd do the same.
Now personally, I wouldn't do it. But if you want to live! with him, it sounds like these are the expectations. If you're not happy with them, or think they're fair, I'd say keep your own place.
Also, she’s 19. At this young of an age, and especially when alcohol is involved, people throw caution to the wind. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you (a lot, even), but it very well might mean that she’s not ready to enter a committed relationship right now. Her priorities could easily be just having fun, and that’s absolutely normal and says nothing negative about you (or her), OP.
Can I just ask why you did that if you're asexual. Also he said if it was another girl he wouldn't have sex with her but focus on me while me and the girl had our fun together.
First of all it's been 2 months and you're in no position to be upset about his roommate due to the plans for a family and kids.
Secondly tons of people are perfectly comfortable having these types of conversation with friends and it's not emotional cheating. It's ok for you to not enjoy it but that doesn't mean someone else has to stop. Being comfortable around people you've known for years this kind of stuff is very common. I think you need to understand that they are just friends and nothing is going on.
We’re pretty open, and he mentioned recently that he doesn’t care to watch porn much but I’m sure he still does. Not sure how often. Although, I have been in a relationship with someone who over watched/pleased himself way too much and I don’t feel like this situation is the same. I plan to tell him I just have massive anxiety so I have to build the courage.
Came to say exactly this
I think these are important compatibility factors when thinking about a future with this person. She doesn't seem to be financially responsible nor cares if her finances are negatively affecting yours.
You have standards and a certain level of respect that you require to feel loved in a relationship and she's failing to meet some very important ones.
Try to get serious with her and join her on her job search. Help her apply, be a part of the process. If she doesn't like this or doesn't want to look any harder, she may not be using you on purpose but thats all she is doing.
Some people who own, go own vacation, and come back to squatters living as if renting their home. Often the owners have to go through all the steps a landlord would to evict said squatters.
I do hate to say it, but it's possibly planned.
I mean, look at the clear manipulation, using a pregnancy to lie, get him to break up with ex, and propose to her??
It's clear he doesnt remember that night. Drugs could have been involved, or heavy manipulation. He could have been black out drunk trying to sleep, just for her to come get in bed and say they yad sex
once people break up, they generally don’t stay friends. Give her space. Find a new friend.
Break up, 7 months isn't a long time and you really messed up. He's not taking it well and you've done nothing about it but feel really really bad. Not good enough and you aren't in, “the right place” to try. Welcome to consequences for my actions chapter one.
If this is all you can think about after what happened, I honestly hope our wife divorces you. Your wife and new baby are your top priority, not your 24 years old daughter, you fucking donut.
What a blessing to be able to move on! He could do the same to you!