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Therapy is the best/only way to move past this, and learn to recognize your patterns so that you donât repeat the same mistakes.
Naw this is Bad take IMO. It wasnât done on purpose and If the shirt was so important he shouldâve made sure to pack it and replace it on his own dime. Iâm not responsible for the things people leave at my place and I hope OP cuts contact with petty friend that values a shirt over mental health and well being of someone he supposedly is a friend to. Never mind the costs of AirBnB if staying at his place for free he should go replace his own shirt, passing the responsibility onto someone else is immature.
Forget about her, and move on. If she wants you she will reach out
Only shave if you want to. Anyone worth their salt won't care about something trivial like that.
Confess to him directly, once for all. When he asks why are you telling him, say âto find a resolutionâ. He will reject you, which will hopefully help your brain to move on from its daydreams.
You sure did have a lot of excuses in your post. Everyone has someone or something in their past that was traumatic and we donât use it as an excuse to mistreat others. Get therapy, move on and do better next relationship.
Exactly. It varies from couple to couple, but nickel and dining each other pretty much guarantees a toxic future, if one at all. If youâre living in a tiny one bedroom apartment within her budget, I could understand how a 50-50 split could be considered reasonable despite you making more, because ultimately itâs actually saving her money of sheâs be living their alone regardless.
However, itâs also very strange to dangle in front of her for âwhen youâre married.â Marriage is a piece of paper that gives you some good legal and tax advantages. It has nothing to do with commitment to your partner. If you would do this if youâre married to someone but not if youâre dating, thatâs shitty. It means your values related to finances donât actual align with what youâre gunning for, you just donât think sheâs worth that type of effort yet. Thatâs really shitty.
If youâre living together, you are clearly enmeshing finances and are committed to each other. If you donât see it that way, you need to find someone who agrees with that mindset of marriage and be upfront about it from the beginning.
Youâre wrong. Thatâs like saying somebody who has a brain tumor thatâs pressing on the frontal lobe has complete control over their behavior. Medical conditions that cause fluctuations in hormones can absolutely impact how a person behaves and how they perceive their behavior.
He can. He just wonât make the effort.
Why he does that doesnât matter, so donât waste time trying to understand it or justify it. Justifying it means that you allow it to continue.
Why he does it doesnât matter. What matters is that heâs doing it. He chooses to let his father talk to you that way. He chooses to go without you. He chooses to not fight for you.
The question wasnât where are his priorities.
The question I asked was what are YOUR priorities.
Your life is not about someone else, itâs about you.
Sheâs a hoe
What if you cheat while in prison? Is he talking for relationships or marriage?
Yes thatâs quite literally what i said above when I agreed with the commenter above me.
Wrong sub, but NTA lol.
This is something you never joke about. She said what she said and was completely serious until she saw her words had consequences. She can't un-ring that bell. You'll never trust her again.
Take notes about this threat on something that records the date (i.e. notepad or a rod document) and break up with her. If you live in a 1-party consent jurisdiction, consider recording the breakup conversation and specifically mention the threat in the process to get her to implicate herself in the lie. This way you have evidence of it in case she follows through on the threat as retaliation for the breakup.
I'm sorry you're going through this dude. Good luck.
So he was actually asking you for a favor? He wanted you to take his cash and transfer the equivalent to him so that he doesn't have to find an ATM to deposit it himself. Saying that you can “keep the cash” is a funny way of asking for a favor, and anyone with half a brain would understand that it would feel like a bait and switch.
Your boyfriend heard you explain why his “joke” wasn't a joke and actually hurt your feelings, but I'm guessing he did not apologize or explain himself satisfactorily because you're here on Reddit. You're not being too sensitive. Did he say that you were?
You can go to a sperm bank and still have a child. A child that will be yours in every way. Just tell her. Also adoption and fostering a child. There are many choices that you both still have. You can still have and love a child. Donât give up.