Meanwhile I can look like death warmed over at times and my fiancé makes me feel like the most attractive woman on earth. Women are not put on earth to look attractive to anyone. Period. Not your boyfriend, not anyone. Please take a hot look at yourself and your situation and do what is best for you. You deserve better.
i didn’t add in the post but when he went to his grandparents before he went to jail for other stuff he went to a rehab and takes suboxone to help with withdrawals so I like to tell myself he got help to stop doing it but idk what i should think anymore
She's not. She's not sorry for sleeping with two other guys, she's only sorry she got caught. She's cheating twice and lied twice, as far as you know. Divorce the cheating liar. There's no coming back from this.
She said she changed her mind over time, did she really? No one knows but her. Awfully convenient she waited till they were almost married to come clean. If she actually changed her mind over a length of time he should have herd about it the second that started not ended so he could decide if he wanted to move forward with the relationship. Kids is not something you can compromise on, I would never tell someone I wanted kids unless I was 100% sure for that very reason, changing your mind = end of relationship. Sure he could have reacted better, does it matter? No, because this is a fundamental deal breaker for the relationship and its over, if not now then soon.
No. That's horseshit. He should've deleted them right after the breakup and there's no way he never ever sees them. He just doesn't want to delete them. I'm surprised he didn't break his back while twisting to make “I didn't want to disrespect my ex by looking at her nudes. So I keep them on my phone where I can only accidentally see them and everyone else could see them” make sense.
Nothing wrong with it. She can also have girls night with friends of any gender.
He scammed you. Leave. Don’t waste a single more second with this man who deceived you so much.
It is better to raise kids alone than with liars.
Two words……HELL NO! Let that cheat on-line with her choice! She simply found out this dude wasn’t all sun and bright days! She’ll do it again….
Meanwhile I can look like death warmed over at times and my fiancé makes me feel like the most attractive woman on earth. Women are not put on earth to look attractive to anyone. Period. Not your boyfriend, not anyone. Please take a hot look at yourself and your situation and do what is best for you. You deserve better.
i didn’t add in the post but when he went to his grandparents before he went to jail for other stuff he went to a rehab and takes suboxone to help with withdrawals so I like to tell myself he got help to stop doing it but idk what i should think anymore
That's a style for children in my opinion. I understand your problem with it.
Are you sharing a bedroom? Why not move to the living room or something?
She's not. She's not sorry for sleeping with two other guys, she's only sorry she got caught. She's cheating twice and lied twice, as far as you know. Divorce the cheating liar. There's no coming back from this.
Did you consider any of that when you had unprotected sex or did you just assume the full responsibility would befall on the woman?
She said she changed her mind over time, did she really? No one knows but her. Awfully convenient she waited till they were almost married to come clean. If she actually changed her mind over a length of time he should have herd about it the second that started not ended so he could decide if he wanted to move forward with the relationship. Kids is not something you can compromise on, I would never tell someone I wanted kids unless I was 100% sure for that very reason, changing your mind = end of relationship. Sure he could have reacted better, does it matter? No, because this is a fundamental deal breaker for the relationship and its over, if not now then soon.
That's a great illustration. Just imagining having that makes me tear up
you have plenty of time to get lots of other people pregnant when you aren't ready for it.
and unless this is your first ever gf, who says this is your first baby?
Honestly this doesn't sounds liker a relationship that is going to last. 5 months in should still be the honeymoon phase.
No. That's horseshit. He should've deleted them right after the breakup and there's no way he never ever sees them. He just doesn't want to delete them. I'm surprised he didn't break his back while twisting to make “I didn't want to disrespect my ex by looking at her nudes. So I keep them on my phone where I can only accidentally see them and everyone else could see them” make sense.
Message him with “here's another topic you and your friend can trash me about – that time I dumped you because you got pissy over a parking spot”