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Date: October 25, 2022
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Yeah but it‘s difficult because I feel like she likes to manipulate people behind my back to play the victim.
I know I‘m an adult but it‘s different when people do it all your life.
You feel powerless no matter what age you are.
Oh OP… you’re not the one at fault here and he isn’t being fair to YOU. His insecurity and inability to love you unless you provide him with sex is abusive. Him making you feel like it’s your fault for not wanting more sex with him is also abusive.
Let me paint a contrast for you.
My girlfriend and I are blissfully in love. We wake up early every morning just so we have an extra 30 mins to cuddle. We also connect incredibly deeply through sex… sometimes we have sex multiple times a day for a couple weeks, sometimes we have sex once a week. It varies based on life, stress, and how we’re feeling. Intimacy =/= sex alone. Cuddling together, playing games together, going on outings, sharing life, enjoying each other’s company… there are endless ways to be intimate and love each other. Though we both are high libido and would happily have sex every day, it’s not always a possibility and love is about about way more than sex. If that’s the only way he feels connected to you or sees value in your relationship then you’re just fuckbuddies, not life partners.
The fact that your husband withdraws affection as soon as you don’t give him what he wants is not love. And it’s not the fault of your libido either. He’s emotionally blackmailing you AND gaslighting you by making you feel badly for not having sex with him more. How are you even supposed to enjoy the sex and intimacy when there’s this much pressure on you? I can’t imagine that you do very much because at this point your relationship is transactional: you give him sex and he gives you affection. Again, that’s NOT love or a partnership. You deserve better.
he sounds like less of an equal partner and more like a rag doll acquiescing to what you want because he can’t be bothered to participate in your relationship……
Bro… that's not being an ass. That's her saying she missed you and wanted time with you becaus she didn't get any for however long you were gone.
so when we talked things through and we were fine and she was loving for a few days then she's cold and distant all of a sudden without any reason, that's not being an ass ?
So wait, it WAS a threat after all? So why are you upset
I was not manipulating her, I was communicating my boundaries, and of course I will be upset even If I'm the one who walked away, I love this person and it sucks seeing them not respecting your boundaries because it means the end of the relationship.
so when she's not ready to talk when you are, it's abuse?
I feel like I'm speaking gibberish ? again, I do not want nor expect her to be ready to talk to her when I am but when I do reach out all what I'm expecting is a simple ' I need space' or ' I don't feel like talking ' or any variation. Otherwise, I find it disrespectful to go completely silent on your partner. when it goes for days it even has the effect of making you feel guilty when you did nothing wrong. I don't think anyone should tolerate that.
Being downvoted for calling out the misogyny, that’s Reddit for you ig
Truly a journey
I know she does. I told her this. She really is amazing more than she knows.
But she's a lot stronger than i am and i just couldn't do it.
Otherwise… Drop It Like It's Hot Or, Have an open, heart to heart conversation about y'alls issues. works^
Honesty is always the better option.
No. There are scenarios that warrant small white lies for the sake of people's feelings. You don't tell a bride her dress makes her look fat even if you think it does.
OP, you were her second choice, and yes, she did settle.
Unless the guy who rejected her was her very first attempt at love and she had 100% every intention to marry him he wasn't a choice she had made yet. He was an option she was exploring. When that option was off the table she moved on to the next suitor like a normal person.
Both OP and his wife are putting this weird significance on the fact that she didn't answer his request for a date for a week because she was currently shooting her shot with someone else.
The choice wasn't 'this guy or that guy' it's 'any guy or even no guy'
She could have still said no. She could have gone on the date and then said no to more. She made a lot of decisions that prioritized him, none of them were because she felt she had no better option.
Sure, first glance he it was diabetes related. I do have a hunch that he my have self inflicted on insulin. He did suffer through depression and anxiety ect. But I am not 100% sure tbh. We will know.more in a little while
Reality is reality. Look at the world around you. THAT is reality. Not what you want or not. The reality I want would be that I have a big house and bunch of other shit for my kids that just are not attainable in today's society, not without either a stroke of luck or working harder than life itself to make it happen. What you want out of reality doesn't make it reality. And the fact that you think wanting something makes it a reality just shows how much you have yet to learn.
I think it's more the post that said they were a 31yr old woman
How convenient for her.
Wtf kind of boyfriend tells you he's sad because he misses his ex? Yuck. You deserve better sis
Show your fiance this post and then continue from there. Also, stop hanging out with that guy.
Did you ever find someone like that? I'm mesmerized by deep talks and podcasts about the universe, origin of life, biology, but I swear the vast majority of women I know instantly fall asleep by the subjects. Bad luck I guess.
No, that's not how it works. Financial fraud is financial fraud. You can “give” someone your credit card. They can't “use” it without your permission. If they do, they are committing a crime.
Unauthorized Use
When a person uses a card without a card holder's permission, this is illegal. Under U.S. law, if the person reports unauthorized use, he is only responsible for a maximum of $50 in charges. Either the retailer or the credit card company will be responsible for any charges made without proper authorization. However, if a spouse's name is on the card, it will not be considered an unauthorized use.
This isn't a shared line of credit. If at any time you write a check, or use a credit/debit card, in someone else's name without their permission, even if you live with them, it's fraud.
OP, call your non emergency police line, they will tell you the same thing.
Why can’t you “flat-out explain” your life to him? He feels like he doesn’t know you because you’re deliberately opaque about your past. Unless you have no relationship with your family, the fact that he hasn’t met them three years in is odd.
I agree that neither you nor he needs to know the specifics about each other sex lives (ie: Bambi & I did it on a swing in the park. Lola loved it from behind.), it is reasonable & informative to know about each other’s romantic history (ie: I had 3 major relationships. I never made time for dating. I’m divorced bc she cheated.) I’m not sure the salacious details matter as much as the thumbnail sketch b/c the overall picture of your dating life helps your partner understand you.
Your bf’s questions about your previous sexual antics will end when you tell him you had one supremely unsatisfying sexual experience before you met him.
Three years in, I’m not sure why you’re not open with him.