So, does me not feeling comfortable marrying someone in 1-2 years not matter? Especially considering I only see them 2-3 times a week. And once again it's not after 5 months, it will have been a year (12 months+) no one is saying it's her “stupid fault” or meaning any of that, but I would like to get to know someone longer. It's like you're telling me to settle down for marriage because she's ready and to completely forget about what other plans I have. Our plans can both work it's just going to take more time.
How does one even confess that the man I loved so dearly just did this to me?
No one is entitled to any information you don't feel like sharing. You can say “he cheated so we're done,” no further details. Or you can just say “it didn't work out” if you don't even want to talk about the cheating. Bottom line is this is your story and you control how much of it gets told.
He had many reasons to follow back. Think about the ONLY accounts you DON'T follow back. Bots? Content creators you don't share any friends with?
He likely follows many “thirst trap” women already. Some of your mutual friends probably post thirst traps all the time.
Whatever conversation that needs to be had doesn't really involve the stripper. She just wants to milk them for cash. Sure she may be a flirt and didn't give you attention but she also followed everyone in that group. Right?
Yes I do, I spend plenty of time with her when I’m home actually. (Several nights together) if I wanna go see my friends for even one day she seems to get upset.
“my bf/gf is a peace of shit. What do i do?”
I know how it sounds, apart from this life together is good and peaceful, thus the disappointment.
So, does me not feeling comfortable marrying someone in 1-2 years not matter? Especially considering I only see them 2-3 times a week. And once again it's not after 5 months, it will have been a year (12 months+) no one is saying it's her “stupid fault” or meaning any of that, but I would like to get to know someone longer. It's like you're telling me to settle down for marriage because she's ready and to completely forget about what other plans I have. Our plans can both work it's just going to take more time.
How does one even confess that the man I loved so dearly just did this to me?
No one is entitled to any information you don't feel like sharing. You can say “he cheated so we're done,” no further details. Or you can just say “it didn't work out” if you don't even want to talk about the cheating. Bottom line is this is your story and you control how much of it gets told.
She followed all the guys in the group.
He had many reasons to follow back. Think about the ONLY accounts you DON'T follow back. Bots? Content creators you don't share any friends with?
He likely follows many “thirst trap” women already. Some of your mutual friends probably post thirst traps all the time.
Whatever conversation that needs to be had doesn't really involve the stripper. She just wants to milk them for cash. Sure she may be a flirt and didn't give you attention but she also followed everyone in that group. Right?
I agree. It doesn't look good. He overreacted..sure. But if this was told from bis point of view everyone would assume the worst.
Trust is important but sometimes if it walks like a duck and quakes like a duck….I'm not gonna assume its a chicken lol
Yes I do, I spend plenty of time with her when I’m home actually. (Several nights together) if I wanna go see my friends for even one day she seems to get upset.
Very true :(. Lesson learned.
I wouldn’t say it’s cheating. I feel the trust is broken. At this point you decide if you want to stay or go.
Why are you with this guy again?
Apologies for the confusion! English is not my first language.
That’s not what your partner found good about you. So don’t change
Just like she has (should have) autonomy about her body, a man also needs autonomy about his body and where his sperm goes