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Date: October 25, 2022
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It honestly sounds like y'all aren't compatible and its really weighing down on you. I would probably approach the conversation as you both needing different ways to express and feel affection and they're just clashing. You really like her as an individual but won't be able to continue seeing her.
If you don't want to go on birthcontrol then don't.
Honestly I think it's irresponsible to not have some type of birthcontrol measure (condoms, pills, IUD, etc). Maybe he needs to get properly sized condoms?
Also, if you're not exclusive then always have condoms. When you go exclusive then STI checks. Only after that rawdog it, and only if there's another form of birthcontrol. And if you don't want a different one then stick with condoms.
I don't forgive…because if it happened once…it can happen again.
He KNOWS you hate it. You’ve told him many many times. Then he lies to you and tells you “how is he supposed to know” despite you telling him many times over the years. Then he punishes you by sulking because of your automatic reaction to being touched in a way that you hate that you immediately apologised for. He never apologises for touching you in a way you hate despite you repeatedly telling him not to and you don’t like it.
Call the police and tell them that shes threatening self harm. Theyll take care of the rest and get her to a hospital for a mental eval. Regardless if she wants to or not
This is a hot no for me.
I don’t think you should have said love you too. It was kinda stupid imo. Although some of the comments are pretty rich talking about how she feels threatened by your ex and that it can be a normal reaction yada yada. Insecurities are only ok going one way apparently….
That's extreme. Herpes isn't life threatening. And we don't know that's what it's for. It treats other viral infections too.
your wife needs to back off
What are you on? Everyone here IS saying it's not normal or it's assault. Also yes op. This is highly weird and sounds like assault. Set some boundaries.
I don’t like this kind of stereotyping. As if gay men aren’t “men’s men” and can’t get along with other guys except for gentler types. It’s totally out dated and untrue.
Yeah – because it’s reasonable to have to minimise your talents and abilities so that a man with a fragile ego feels secure. Basically flutter your eyelashes and play helpless, so that his pride isn’t bruised, even when you can see there is an urgent imperative to get the job done, and he is not able to. Pfffft. That sounds healthy. /s
Sigh. When is everybody gonna grow up and just be decent to the other humans?
Ps. Good on you, OP, for being so kind and putting in so much effort to build your joint future and try to help your partner when he was under pressure. Sorry that he and some others are such dinosaurs in their thinking. You deserve better treatment. Now at least you know which type to avoid in the future. You won’t to go for a healthy well-rounded person who doesn’t expect you to be less, in order for him to feel like he’s enough.
As someone with a father who is just like this. The more you do, the more he will take advantage of.
He won't ever change, if you have kids, he'll try to get the kids to do his share.
You now understand the importance of not lapsing on your meds. It's important to remember that the meds have withdrawal symptoms when you suddenly stop taking them.
On the positive side, you are better off than a lot of people with similar conditions, because you seem to understand you have a problem that needs to be addressed.
Now the thing is that being in a relationship with someone who has a mental health issue like Bipolar Disorder is always going to be a challenge. It requires an awful lot of endurance. Best case, you take your medication and everything is fine. But even with perfect compliance, there's still the risk of crashing because the medicine is a treatment not a cure.
You need to be constantly monitored, with dosages sometimes adjusted or sometimes medicines may need to be switched entirely. Usually over time, your body develops a tolerance to the medication, and the dosage has to be increased to continue to prevent symptoms. And doctors aren't perfect, so they can't guarantee that even if you are perfectly compliant, you will never crash again.
Bottom line — anyone who signs up for a relationship with you has to accept that. They have to be strong enough to handle the rough patches.
If she does not feel she can handle that, then it's best she moves on. I know you two care about each other a lot. But try not to get to tied up in the sentimentalities of “soul mates”. The reality is there are many people out there in this world who we could be with. If she is perfect in everyway except she can't deal with your mental health issues, then she might not be the right one for you.
Or maybe she just needs time to figure out if it's something she can handle. But even if she decides she can't, there will be someone out there for you.
I'm interested to hear what being woke means with regard to sex also? Can you give more context about what you mean?